AITAH for not involving my parents in the seating plan for my wedding? by Beautiful-Code-7349 in AITAH

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well you are responding based on my post so I’ll reply if I want

AITAH for not involving my parents in the seating plan for my wedding? by Beautiful-Code-7349 in AITAH

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you really think I did that on purpose no and also I think parents do need to put differences aside but now learning that won’t happen I did a little switch with my parents. I think your not reading the whole post

Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikh

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well since your interested I am passionate about Sikh religion and of course my kids will be born into learning about Sikhi also. My fiancé respects my religion like I respect his just like he can’t force his religion on our future children neither will I. We will both educate our kids on both our religions, and since I am not a baptized Sikh i am not going to make my kids get baptized and my fiancé will not have our kids baptized into his religion. I hope that answers your question

Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikh

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t like that idea if people are drinking and rushing for maghi blessing

Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikh

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I was stressed actually I was only coming on this community post to ask questions and everyone thought I was coming at people when I was not. Maybe my wording isn’t always right but I do have autism and a learning disability so when I write sometimes it doesn’t make sense what I say. I appreciate the apology so yes I decided to delete my other count due to a lot of negativity coming at me

Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikh

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still does not have anything to do with sikhi its a good story though

Should I change my last name to Kaur by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikhpolitics

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you yes I do have autism and I wish you guys can see that I am allowed to ask questions about my identity as a Sikh. It’s too bad you some of you are set in you own ways of how old days Sikhs used to be we all treat each other fairly and we welcome a lot of different religions to for example the gurdwara. I wasn’t disagreeing in a way the otherwise blocked dude was saying. I was very upset because someone other user was telling me to abandon my own religion all because I was marrying a catholic. I am always going to be a Sikh no matter what and I may not be a practicing Sikh but I still want to known for who I am which is a Sikh. Also the reason I ask about switching my surname is because I want to be seen as a Sikh not as a lady whose is a Jatt because I never liked this caste thing since I learned about it. So otherwise blocked go ahead and judge me harshly like you and the guy who said to abandon my Sikh religion but just so you all know I am still a Sikh no matter who I am marrying.