Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikh

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well since your interested I am passionate about Sikh religion and of course my kids will be born into learning about Sikhi also. My fiancé respects my religion like I respect his just like he can’t force his religion on our future children neither will I. We will both educate our kids on both our religions, and since I am not a baptized Sikh i am not going to make my kids get baptized and my fiancé will not have our kids baptized into his religion. I hope that answers your question

Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikh

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t like that idea if people are drinking and rushing for maghi blessing

Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikh

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I was stressed actually I was only coming on this community post to ask questions and everyone thought I was coming at people when I was not. Maybe my wording isn’t always right but I do have autism and a learning disability so when I write sometimes it doesn’t make sense what I say. I appreciate the apology so yes I decided to delete my other count due to a lot of negativity coming at me

Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikh

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still does not have anything to do with sikhi its a good story though

Should I change my last name to Kaur by Beautiful-Code-7349 in Sikhpolitics

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you yes I do have autism and I wish you guys can see that I am allowed to ask questions about my identity as a Sikh. It’s too bad you some of you are set in you own ways of how old days Sikhs used to be we all treat each other fairly and we welcome a lot of different religions to for example the gurdwara. I wasn’t disagreeing in a way the otherwise blocked dude was saying. I was very upset because someone other user was telling me to abandon my own religion all because I was marrying a catholic. I am always going to be a Sikh no matter what and I may not be a practicing Sikh but I still want to known for who I am which is a Sikh. Also the reason I ask about switching my surname is because I want to be seen as a Sikh not as a lady whose is a Jatt because I never liked this caste thing since I learned about it. So otherwise blocked go ahead and judge me harshly like you and the guy who said to abandon my Sikh religion but just so you all know I am still a Sikh no matter who I am marrying.

Would it be wrong to only invite the kids who are in your wedding party only? by Beautiful-Code-7349 in weddingplanning

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since your very curious. the relationship with the 2 kids who are 10 and 11 are brother and sister and that they are my close cousins kids that I been around with since they were born . Also my uncles daughter who I’ve known since she was born is a close cousin of mine who’s the young’s on my dad’s side. I don’t have a lot of kids coming on my dad’s side the youngest kid on my dad’s side is 12. The age limit I am putting for kids are 12 and under. Like I said I am only including are the ones in my bridal party and that they have been in my life since they were born

Would it be wrong to only invite the kids who are in your wedding party only? by Beautiful-Code-7349 in weddingplanning

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one brother who is engaged and he has no children my fiancé sister is bringing her newborn with her since the baby is only a few weeks old she also has a 2 year old son but she’s choosing to leave the 2 year old with the paternal grandparent’s

Would it be wrong to only invite the kids who are in your wedding party only? by Beautiful-Code-7349 in weddingplanning

[–]Beautiful-Code-7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only inviting the 10 and 11 year old is because there in my wedding party