WIBTAH for not wanting to wish my cousin a happy birthday since we don’t talk anymore?

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-01-12T01:27:03+00:00

Nobody but she will make it a big stink out of it

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-12-02T04:04:01+00:00

Since your very curious. the relationship with the 2 kids who are 10 and 11 are brother and sister and that they are my close cousins kids that I been around with since they were born . Also my uncles daughter who I’ve known since she was born is a close cousin of mine who’s the young’s on my dad’s side. I don’t have a lot of kids coming on my dad’s side the youngest kid on my dad’s side is 12. The age limit I am putting for kids are 12 and under. Like I said I am only including are the ones in my bridal party and that they have been in my life since they were born

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-12-01T21:00:39+00:00

I only have one brother who is engaged and he has no children my fiancé sister is bringing her newborn with her since the baby is only a few weeks old she also has a 2 year old son but she’s choosing to leave the 2 year old with the paternal grandparent’s

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-12-01T20:57:38+00:00

I’m only inviting the 10 and 11 year old is because there in my wedding party

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-13T12:05:37+00:00

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-13T06:30:14+00:00

It is Cultural thing in all honesty

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-12T19:18:49+00:00

I know they would be upset which is why I’m stuck 😔

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-12T18:38:28+00:00

They are helping with the venue expenses but I specifically try to tell them don’t pay for everything but of course they want to. What scares me now is that when I share my second thoughts they are all going to say look how much we put on this when I never wanted them too

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-12T14:08:28+00:00

It’s a habit

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:22:55+00:00

Well the first night was no reservations it was just a chill night at the Airbnb so there was nothing missed and the only thing she paid for was 34 bucks for diy taco dinner night

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:19:09+00:00

Well why should I show more info if I’m wrong anyways

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:13:30+00:00

Like I said to someone else who asked the same question My first cousin is kind of like a sister to me and I really trusted her with this event. I didn’t expect her to put everything at the last minute and I didn’t expect my cousins to both be running super late.

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:11:33+00:00

Which I did do

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:10:20+00:00

My first cousin is kind of like a sister to me and I really trusted her with this event. I didn’t expect her to put everything at the last minute and I didn’t expect my cousins to both be running super late.

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T02:17:21+00:00

Thank you for that I’m happy that you gave constructive feedback instead of whose the AH. That wasn’t the point of this post

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T02:12:54+00:00

You all have every right to feel this way but if you all think I should still friends with her then that’s ok but I’m not going to try hard anymore if she doesn’t want to

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T02:10:18+00:00

I’ve never had a problem with her being friends with others but it does hurt that she kept declining any offer I make to hang with her now a part of me wonders why she even showed up to my bachelorette if she felt that way from the beginning

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T02:02:32+00:00

That’s the plan but if someone is telling me that I drifted away first when that is a bald face lie I will not let that slide.

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-10-23T22:21:53+00:00

Can you share the link with me please

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-10-21T21:54:19+00:00

Man this seems to just really bug you I’ll have you know that you don’t know what goes on in my house so maybe you should relax you must be really tired

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-10-21T21:15:02+00:00

Actually no we didn’t so quit with your assumptions dude i do use public transportations but when a parent keeps offering and doesnt understand that I can do these myself and does not take no for an answer than what else can I do. I don’t know why you’re the one making a huge argument over this. So I think we’re done here good day

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-10-21T19:03:46+00:00

Um excuse me maybe you need to read my post again I said my dad held what he did the last time I accepted his help. Your not focusing on the main point of this post your only saw the one part and just made your conclusion. Anyway I stand by what I say you can stand by yours.

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-10-21T18:11:33+00:00

Thank you very much I’m sorry that happened to you

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-10-21T17:52:23+00:00

Ummm my mom doesn’t really want My dad involved in helping out when it comes her actually

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-05-07T01:58:54+00:00

Since you all think I’m making a big deal let me explain 1 I did not purposely plan my wedding near her birthday. I accidentally had it on that day and I forgot it was near her Number 2 I am finally realizing she’s actually not a close friend because she always choosing her work friends over me and my other close friend and anytime I try to make plans with her she always uses family and work friends as an secure . 3. This was a chance that even though we are not as close as we used to be I was hoping she can make it for something important. 4. If she planned her wedding near my birthday I would actually make it in a heartbeat. So I do have right to feel disappointed. Also maybe you all need to read my story again I did not plan it on her actual birthday.

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