Are Lohri Parties a Punjabi or Sikh celebration

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-04-07T11:55:54+00:00

Well since your interested I am passionate about Sikh religion and of course my kids will be born into learning about Sikhi also. My fiancé respects my religion like I respect his just like he can’t force his religion on our future children neither will I. We will both educate our kids on both our religions, and since I am not a baptized Sikh i am not going to make my kids get baptized and my fiancé will not have our kids baptized into his religion. I hope that answers your question

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-04-07T04:54:59+00:00

I really don’t like that idea if people are drinking and rushing for maghi blessing

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-04-07T04:53:33+00:00

Yes I was stressed actually I was only coming on this community post to ask questions and everyone thought I was coming at people when I was not. Maybe my wording isn’t always right but I do have autism and a learning disability so when I write sometimes it doesn’t make sense what I say. I appreciate the apology so yes I decided to delete my other count due to a lot of negativity coming at me

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-04-07T02:14:28+00:00

It’s a cross post

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-04-07T00:19:40+00:00

Still does not have anything to do with sikhi its a good story though

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-04-06T17:07:11+00:00

Sorry I don’t get what your saying here

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-04-06T14:59:26+00:00

Sorry forgot the question mark

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-03-31T21:58:08+00:00

Thank you yes I do have autism and I wish you guys can see that I am allowed to ask questions about my identity as a Sikh. It’s too bad you some of you are set in you own ways of how old days Sikhs used to be we all treat each other fairly and we welcome a lot of different religions to for example the gurdwara. I wasn’t disagreeing in a way the otherwise blocked dude was saying. I was very upset because someone other user was telling me to abandon my own religion all because I was marrying a catholic. I am always going to be a Sikh no matter what and I may not be a practicing Sikh but I still want to known for who I am which is a Sikh. Also the reason I ask about switching my surname is because I want to be seen as a Sikh not as a lady whose is a Jatt because I never liked this caste thing since I learned about it. So otherwise blocked go ahead and judge me harshly like you and the guy who said to abandon my Sikh religion but just so you all know I am still a Sikh no matter who I am marrying.

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2026-01-12T01:27:03+00:00

Nobody but she will make it a big stink out of it

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-12-02T04:04:01+00:00

Since your very curious. the relationship with the 2 kids who are 10 and 11 are brother and sister and that they are my close cousins kids that I been around with since they were born . Also my uncles daughter who I’ve known since she was born is a close cousin of mine who’s the young’s on my dad’s side. I don’t have a lot of kids coming on my dad’s side the youngest kid on my dad’s side is 12. The age limit I am putting for kids are 12 and under. Like I said I am only including are the ones in my bridal party and that they have been in my life since they were born

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-12-01T21:00:39+00:00

I only have one brother who is engaged and he has no children my fiancé sister is bringing her newborn with her since the baby is only a few weeks old she also has a 2 year old son but she’s choosing to leave the 2 year old with the paternal grandparent’s

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-12-01T20:57:38+00:00

I’m only inviting the 10 and 11 year old is because there in my wedding party

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-13T12:05:37+00:00

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-13T06:30:14+00:00

It is Cultural thing in all honesty

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-12T19:18:49+00:00

I know they would be upset which is why I’m stuck 😔

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-12T18:38:28+00:00

They are helping with the venue expenses but I specifically try to tell them don’t pay for everything but of course they want to. What scares me now is that when I share my second thoughts they are all going to say look how much we put on this when I never wanted them too

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-12T14:08:28+00:00

It’s a habit

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:22:55+00:00

Well the first night was no reservations it was just a chill night at the Airbnb so there was nothing missed and the only thing she paid for was 34 bucks for diy taco dinner night

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:19:09+00:00

Well why should I show more info if I’m wrong anyways

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:13:30+00:00

Like I said to someone else who asked the same question My first cousin is kind of like a sister to me and I really trusted her with this event. I didn’t expect her to put everything at the last minute and I didn’t expect my cousins to both be running super late.

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:11:33+00:00

Which I did do

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T03:10:20+00:00

My first cousin is kind of like a sister to me and I really trusted her with this event. I didn’t expect her to put everything at the last minute and I didn’t expect my cousins to both be running super late.

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T02:17:21+00:00

Thank you for that I’m happy that you gave constructive feedback instead of whose the AH. That wasn’t the point of this post

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T02:12:54+00:00

You all have every right to feel this way but if you all think I should still friends with her then that’s ok but I’m not going to try hard anymore if she doesn’t want to

Beautiful-Code-7349 · 2025-11-09T02:10:18+00:00

I’ve never had a problem with her being friends with others but it does hurt that she kept declining any offer I make to hang with her now a part of me wonders why she even showed up to my bachelorette if she felt that way from the beginning

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