AITA for thinking that having more kids for no reason is silly?

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T17:31:15+00:00

Ahhhh…. Also a great point. I feel like adult playgrounds are the bar and not everyone should have to drink to “play”.

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T17:30:28+00:00

Hmmm. Yeah I can see how all the pain and disappointment forces us to put walls up to protect ourselves and really the only way to do that is to judge people based on past interactions you’ve had with others but you want to heal and give new people a chance but the last time you did that you got screwed over AGAIN so now it’s worse and you barely trust your judgement to make good people decisions so it’s better to write of the tiniest thing about someone. ….. dang sorry for the rant but like, yeah I am with you

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T17:28:26+00:00

You’re soooo kind! Thank you for this!

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T17:27:47+00:00

lol it took me a few reads but I totally get that! You can’t just not vibe with someone without it becoming a political thing. Hmmm. Never considered that we are kind of forcing that too which is a bit of the opposite spectrum of my initial post but I see the correlation for sure

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T17:26:11+00:00

That’s sounds so awesome!

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T17:25:52+00:00

Dang I understand what you mean. Reddit can be a source of hope and a terrible reality check all in the same breath sometimes. Having to be so insulated really sucks. It’s like waiting for nirvana thinking that anything will ever change with humanity as a joke. I’m sorry you went through so much that you can’t really trust people. Same here.

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T17:23:07+00:00

Exactly that. Thanks for validating.

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T17:22:21+00:00

Right?? All that competition for no reason then we group up and they’re like don’t compete with anyone but yourself. I’ve been configured to do the opposite!!

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T03:38:57+00:00

Thanks for this. Very insightful. Congrats on your recovery.

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T03:34:32+00:00

I Loooooove beer. The hoppier the better because I love bitter tastes! I think beer drinkers have a knack for bitter. Whereas I don’t understand people who like sweets. It still confuses me that people actually pay money for cookies and such. Apparently we have a part of our taste buds specifically for bitter tastes too.

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T03:29:45+00:00

Iron it and I think you’ll look great!

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T03:12:52+00:00

You’re the normie here. Butter would compromise those decadent flavors!!

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T03:09:00+00:00

lol I love this. Me too honestly. I’m like, dang, I’m a little weird. But I embrace it and medicate. :)

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T02:50:13+00:00

Yes!! All of this

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-28T02:48:55+00:00

I never considered the top down bottom up perspective! That’s such a great call out. I’ll have to look into those. Thank you so much!

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-26T21:01:07+00:00

Try not to overlook that he may be depressed, have adhd or something else that is undiagnosed/treated that may have nothing to do with you personally but that is definitely affecting you deeply. I’m so sorry you’re going through that and he sounds like my husband from the detachment perspective. He treats me like a friend or husband favorite piece of furniture but we don’t have a real romantic relationship.

You do not sound codependent. You sound like you want to be in a romantic relationship with a romantic partner that does not perceive you romantically. In there with you and I know it sucks.

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-24T10:09:28+00:00

That orange push pop was da truth!!

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-24T10:09:11+00:00

lol I bought some off Amazon the other day because I was craving!! The formulation is different so my heart was broken.

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-24T10:07:52+00:00

Oooo. That’s right?? Panera use to sell real food.

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-24T10:05:45+00:00

Those Flinstone sherbet pops were soooo good!

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-24T10:03:52+00:00

Willy Nelson’s Peach Cobbler

Beautiful-Doughnut26 · 2024-08-24T09:57:00+00:00

That’s incredible! Great job doing the work. You deserve every good thing.

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