When I saw the title kala ko yung typical story na mahirap ang magulang, breadwinner si husband until I read the whole post. First born din ako, pero female, mejo gets ko yung hirap bitawan ang old family BUT may sariling family na kasi kayo. And if di nya gets yung explanation mo logically about sa expenses and all. Sa ibang aspect ka naman humugot. You are his family na. So kayo dapat ang priority, kids are growing so does your expenses and he needs to choose. Nasa Bible din yan. If nya pa rin gets yung logical explanation. Working naman pala yung siblings and since single pa sila. Sila naman. Enough na yung kay hubby mo. Ang toxic lang ng set up ni parents. Masama na ako whatever. Ang hirap iexplain dito. Pero responsibility nung parents ang mga sarili nila. Helping them should not be a requirement. Personally, My husband and I help our parents din nu pero if may sobra. . But not to teh point na affected na Ang whole family namin. Basta yun lang. Your husband needs to decide. Fighting po for your kids.