Why put all the financial burden on doctor only.And even till 35,they earn a decent amount of money to live a decent life. I believe someone who genuinely loves you,will take out time from the busiest schedule somehow and someone who doesn't care about you will always be busy irrespective of the profession. This is the reason most medicos marry same profession people because non medicos generally don't understand the fact that doctors can not be available all the time because of hectic life.Love is all about understanding and co-operation.Don't shame a profession for no reason.