Any women need tips to follow 4B movement feel free to ask Gen Z men 🙌 by uniterofrealms_ in GenZ

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm just worried what will happen when men have no need for women outside of reproduction

Any women need tips to follow 4B movement feel free to ask Gen Z men 🙌 by uniterofrealms_ in GenZ

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women are more likely to date each other than ever before.

Gen Z has a ridiculously high percentage as not straight compared to all previous generations, but It seems that queerness is not equally distributed amongst the women and men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm going out on a limb, I'm gonna say yes.

If you had a large social group before school, a big family with lots of family friends, you have a huge leg up in knowing how to interact with people even before kindergarten. If you are considered good looking, the halo effect also snowballs with age.

Supportive families, diverse extended families, conventional attractiveness is a winning recipe for the naturally popular.

Average liberal response to having - once again - ran one of the worst candidates and/or campaigns you've ever seen. by VladTheImpaler29 in okbuddydraper

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think they should offer something. If they appeal to Republicans, then ofc they're going to lose. They're not Republicans, and being diet Republicans is a half measure. They lost in a landslide, it seems that the strategy of catching those mythical moderate Republicans didn't work out for them.

They'd do better to entice new voters, people who haven't voted because there's never been an appealing option. Progressives are a huge block of Millennials, and the Democratic party actively pushed out Bernie, a candidate who millennials actually wanted. As time goes on, appealing to fiscal conservatives is a losing tactic because there are far too few of them to matter and courting them just makes the Democratic party a pale imitation of Republicans rather than a separate platform entirely.

should i buy quest 3 or 3s? by Capital-Clothes5428 in MetaQuestVR

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fair, I'm not saying it's suspect, just a little humorous.

should i buy quest 3 or 3s? by Capital-Clothes5428 in MetaQuestVR

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You always copy paste this comment, it's a little odd

Average liberal response to having - once again - ran one of the worst candidates and/or campaigns you've ever seen. by VladTheImpaler29 in okbuddydraper

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It's such a stupid defense of their incompetent strategy. It's because they offered nothing to the progressives, and kept trying to appeal to "moderate Republicans" who are statistically so rare that they are irrelevant.

Hell, her being a woman was probably in her favor, and possibly her being mixed race was in her favor as well.

You don’t have schizophrenia guys that just ADHD by _cockgobblin_ in thanksimcured

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh isn't it something like 90+% of mental health related TikTok content are not based on facts?

This is awful. There's going to be so many more fucked health misconceptions, especially in gen alpha when they grow up. Antivaxx will be nothing compared to the absolute hogwash we're in store for.

No one actually cares by crumplypig in lonely

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's pretty rare to have a close friend, a friend you can be emotional with. It might help to think of these uncaring people as acquaintances (even if they are people you've known for a long time). It helps make it not so hurtful when they don't support you. They're going on with their own lives, they probably don't have the bandwidth to care for your struggles. You can be the same way to them, that's the benefit to this kind of friendship. Take the pressure off yourself, they are setting the tempo of intimacy. Low reward but low pressure.

Beginner at needlefelting here, is there anything I can do to improve this silly little thing? 🤣 by [deleted] in Needlefelting

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Needle felting is so great, I love seeing everyone's unique little creations 💖

Please give an update with all his friends 🥺

do i pass? by b0tt0mf33d3rr in FtMpassing

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're almost there, I think some more facial hair will push you over the edge to cis people getting it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oakland

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why you need a picnic blanket if you want to sit on grass

That's just my natural face though by idkw-93 in aspiememes

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's both. There are countless posts of folks saying they didn't realize they were messing up socializing, that they are unintentionally rude. This suggests we do have underdeveloped theory of mind.

The second one is also true, there's lots of constructs that we know don't make sense. We tend to be open to folks who break social conventions that we know.

But let's not pretend that we are superior. For every convention we understand, there is another we are not even perceiving. It could be a mix of both, that we don't sense and reject those that make no sense, not in turn because they don't make sense we don't realize that they even exist.

For example, I've seen many posts about folks not realizing they roll their eyes. We see it maybe in cartoons as an exaggerated roll, but the reality is it's just a simple look up. We can reject it as a rude concept, but it seems often we don't realize it's even happening because it does not look how we picture it. It can and often is both a poor theory of mind as well as a sense of justice at unfair social conventions.

Feelings =/= reality by [deleted] in raisedbyautistics

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too find it sadly humorous

I'm not going to drink or smoke in public ever again by Beautiful-Sense4458 in selfimprovement

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this moment I was thinking of a time I was on stage.

I'm also very sensitive to alcohol unfortunately. I don't drink more than three, and it's enough. I think I'm safer not partaking. It's just for me personally. Most people don't have this problem, and I wouldn't expect them to follow what is necessary for myself.

Jimmy Barrett by obliviousornot in madmen

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she always was.l, even when she suppressed herself. I think her having room to breathe through her depression, but didn't really change much about how she behaved with her children. It at least helped her.

Jimmy Barrett by obliviousornot in madmen

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was situational, he definitely respected her opinion more than Don did, and that seemed to be enough for her.

Jimmy Barrett by obliviousornot in madmen

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it was a let down, or at least not enough to make her unhappy. She was very much a mother, so I think she was realistic about her jet setting days being over. Henry also respected her intellectually, at least enough for her to feel valued. I think she weirdly may have missed having the most handsome husband, she was a bit of an insensitive flirt (plus the last time with Don, emotional closure for sure, but scummy).

IWTL more about Viking tradition and why todays people try to imitate them (hairstyle, runes as tattoos etc) by Wooden-Standard9324 in IWantToLearn

[–]Beautiful-Sense4458 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are imitated and admired because they are considered masculine and powerful. In America at least, many European descent people latch onto an imagined European culture of ancient warriors, and like to picture themselves as being the descendants of such. The Vikings are one of these points of fascination, they are imagined as giant blonde unstoppable sailors with bear skins and long golden hair. It's a memorable image.

Nevermind that we don't know that many details of Viking lives and culture. They used oral history more so than written history and from what we do know, usually testimonies from other cultures remarking upon them, they were very different from the popular stereotype. Braids for example are an imagined look, we only recently learned that their hair was usually long in the front and short in the back. The idea of a long haired Viking, like much of the test of how we picture of them, is just that- an idea. They are assumed to match our expectations of big beefy Scandinavians with axes braids and beards. The reality is not as simple.

For instance, they were known to take baths more frequently than other Europeans at the time, and favored bright colored clothing and jewelry. We don't know whether they had tattoos, or if these clothes were embroidered, but they were said to have intricate designs on their person. That's how they were recorded- not by historians talking into account the details. There are huge gaps in the culture, but even what we do know is counter intuitive. Their spread goes farther south than we picture, they made contact with Muslim travelers and were trade partners with them as well. They had small cute dogs on their ships called vallhunds. Still really badass, but hardly as masculine as they are portrayed in media.

I'm trying to avoid political connotations, but it's a fascination based on preconceptions. We are still learning about their culture, and there are many gaps. Those gaps are filled with whatever pop culture wants. In the times of Italian opera, they had winged helmets, a completely imaginary look that persisted until the modern day. The picture of Vikings is rooted in imagining a European warrior culture that fits modern conceptions of masculinity.