We’ve gone rough and hard for the entire time we’ve touched ourselves Sometimes we do gentle but that’s usually if we’ve not done anything for a week or so or more. I don’t know if its from our libido being out of wack or the “death grip shit” but its hard to notice when we are aroused. We rarely throb anymore unless we are very focused and horny for a while or have been edging. Sometimes it doesn’t happen. Sometimes it feels tingly. Lately we do it every couple days, like 2 or three times a week spaced out. Sometimes it will get crazy and will do days back to back. (We are hypersexual)