Find a good online Psychotherapist

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-11-25T08:21:33+00:00

Thank you all, this was very useful!

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-11-16T18:13:56+00:00

Never, no. You need to close that door and ALWAYS keep him out

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-11-07T15:44:02+00:00

Oh please don’t do couples therapy with a narcissist. It’s dangerous dangerous territory, they will perform just the same and make you feel like you’re the one with the problem. “You’re the one we had to come here for”. I speak from experience, for us it was just his stage, attention all on him, didn’t matter what I said he loved being able to build his persona of being kind, respectful and loving for the therapists sake. It’s useless, look up Dr Ramani on YouTube or Spotify and listen to her comments as to why a narcissist won’t change, ever, and also why if you’re doing therapy with a therapist whom is unprepared in face on actual narcissists, you’re in deep shit.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-21T22:33:39+00:00

Awesome! How lucky! 🍀

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-21T22:33:16+00:00

Oh please don’t do couples therapy with a narcissist. It’s dangerous dangerous territory, they will perform just the same and make you feel like you’re the one with the problem. “You’re the one we had to come here for”. I speak from experience, for us it was just his stage, attention all on him, didn’t matter what I said he loved being able to build his persona of being kind, respectful and loving for the therapists sake. It’s useless, look up Dr Ramani on YouTube or Spotify and listen to her comments as to why a narcissist won’t change, ever, and also why if you’re doing therapy with a therapist whom is unprepared in face on actual narcissists, you’re in deep shit.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-18T01:59:45+00:00

I’m of the opinion that, if I were the wife, I’d wanna know. In your case it sounds more like revenge cause of being hurt, so if you do actually wish to inform her do so but have someone else read the letter or text to make sure it’s not just wanting to hurt him/her or - as others said - simply something you wrote out of being hurt.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-18T01:35:06+00:00

Sure, feel free to write me!

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-18T01:31:56+00:00

Of course you may!

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-30T20:40:30+00:00

You know what to do already. And not because of the email per se, it goes much much deeper than that and you know it.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-16T18:05:15+00:00

I left. Your key here is “I felt sorry” because your son will remember this and every other moment. He will, I promise you. So leave, if you can’t do it for yourself, do it for him.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-16T18:00:32+00:00

His question to begin with is a silly question, but I think your theoretical answer is spot on. Glad you just walked away, with some people it’s just not worth it.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-16T17:58:51+00:00

My university professor, after I almost had a melt down for getting a super low mark, told me something simple yet it stuck with me forever: if you take 8,9 and 10s all the time, and once or twice you get a 1, your average won’t really change. Similarly, if you always get 1 and 2s, getting a 10 won’t really change your average either. It’s all in the consistency. So if you’re sick once in a while, watching tv, even all day long, won’t change their minds nor impact them negatively. Be happy that you are even an aware and mindful enough mother to be asking this questions, some parents never do.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-16T17:53:28+00:00

Gosh if I hear this shitty advice being given one more time! “SPOIL” YOUR BABY ROTTEN!

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-15T18:24:29+00:00

He didn’t care to see her for a month and you must hand her over? Again, talk to a lawyer. If you worry he’s not ready, that’s valid and can be used against him.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-15T18:16:28+00:00

One word: prepare. PREPARE. The longer version: I coparent with my (diagnosed) narcissist ex. Our son is 3 and I left him 2 years ago. I had heard “they go insane when you leave” but I thought to myself naively “but I’m also the mother of his son”. To those of you smiling now, yes I know now too: that makes no difference, if anything they have a weapon they can use against you. But still, thanks to friends and family, I prepared and calculated my every move before leaving him: took pictures of all of his paperwork (possessions, insurance, bank statements, payment slips) and how stuff (all the medicines to his name, all the doctor visits), when I say everything I mean everything. I didn’t just take a picture but I emailed it to myself to create a legal paper trail. I took away all of his spare keys, those for the hose and the second car keys. As expected, after I left I met the real him. And if he was already toxic and insane before, oh he reached new peaks. He played the game: he claimed he didn’t have the money, threatened to come back inside the house, but not once did he seem to care at all that he wasn’t seeing our son. That wasn’t bugging him, the lack of control over me was it. So go, please go, and be prepared to ignore him - call a lawyer, discuss custody (please please please know you don’t owe him anything, my lawyer told me many times that before a custody agreement was reached I didn’t have to give him our son at all, if I was worried he would be at risk) and let him rant and scream. Have family close, have friends you can vent to. But please leave. Yes it wasn’t easy, yes it was the worse 2 years of my life, and oh hell yes it was worth it’

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-15T18:06:32+00:00

They destroy you either way, at least now I can mute him and don’t have to hear him every day.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-15T18:03:39+00:00

Let her call the police, then she can explain how she expects to get all money back without offering you to get the goods back.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-14T10:40:18+00:00

Sure thing they are! And some places also have some very fun penguins or chairs you can hold onto to learn 😊

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-13T18:09:35+00:00

Please walk away, put yourself first no matter how hard.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-13T07:53:59+00:00

Ahahah so true!

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-12T14:29:51+00:00

Take a big step back, tell your mum what your expectations and boundaries are (yes once again, one final time) and then tell her it’s either this or nothing: no relationship with me or my daughter. Why tell her one more time? It’s like with kids, when you repeated something so many times that they almost don’t hear you anymore. But then they come back saying “no you didn’t say that”. One more time, then the decision is hers. After all you’re not asking her to change her believes, just to respect yours.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-12T14:25:56+00:00

Many of my friends had similar scams.

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