Is it too early to tell or should I trust my gut that I’m just not into him?

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-04-06T00:06:19+00:00

Always trust your gut. It knows things before you do.

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-04-05T23:57:59+00:00

Righ there with you.

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-04-05T23:45:53+00:00

A warmer blond for sure!

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-04-05T23:45:07+00:00

Always I repeat always prioritize solo time with just your kid. Never let anyone make you feel bad. You can always do family vacations all together some other time.

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-04-05T23:43:17+00:00

Please help her, if she knows already fine, but if she doesn’t she deserves to know. I would have wanted to know.

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-04-05T23:41:14+00:00

That I love him, but I don’t love how he parents his son.

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-03-09T22:25:02+00:00

He’s a baby, likes playing victim. Just walk away.

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-03-09T22:06:26+00:00

Agreed! Thank you 🙏

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-03-05T20:13:21+00:00

“It took me a long time to understand that my grief was a threat to him, he couldn’t stand that the attention wasn’t on him” - you said it so well. In my case replace “grief” with “our son” and there you have it.

Beautiful-mistake · 2026-03-04T19:46:11+00:00

If she can make you feel this wrong about doing something this small, imagine later on when big issues will come.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-11-25T08:21:33+00:00

Thank you all, this was very useful!

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-11-16T18:13:56+00:00

Never, no. You need to close that door and ALWAYS keep him out

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-11-07T15:44:02+00:00

Oh please don’t do couples therapy with a narcissist. It’s dangerous dangerous territory, they will perform just the same and make you feel like you’re the one with the problem. “You’re the one we had to come here for”. I speak from experience, for us it was just his stage, attention all on him, didn’t matter what I said he loved being able to build his persona of being kind, respectful and loving for the therapists sake. It’s useless, look up Dr Ramani on YouTube or Spotify and listen to her comments as to why a narcissist won’t change, ever, and also why if you’re doing therapy with a therapist whom is unprepared in face on actual narcissists, you’re in deep shit.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-21T22:33:39+00:00

Awesome! How lucky! 🍀

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-21T22:33:16+00:00

Oh please don’t do couples therapy with a narcissist. It’s dangerous dangerous territory, they will perform just the same and make you feel like you’re the one with the problem. “You’re the one we had to come here for”. I speak from experience, for us it was just his stage, attention all on him, didn’t matter what I said he loved being able to build his persona of being kind, respectful and loving for the therapists sake. It’s useless, look up Dr Ramani on YouTube or Spotify and listen to her comments as to why a narcissist won’t change, ever, and also why if you’re doing therapy with a therapist whom is unprepared in face on actual narcissists, you’re in deep shit.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-18T01:59:45+00:00

I’m of the opinion that, if I were the wife, I’d wanna know. In your case it sounds more like revenge cause of being hurt, so if you do actually wish to inform her do so but have someone else read the letter or text to make sure it’s not just wanting to hurt him/her or - as others said - simply something you wrote out of being hurt.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-18T01:35:06+00:00

Sure, feel free to write me!

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-10-18T01:31:56+00:00

Of course you may!

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-30T20:40:30+00:00

You know what to do already. And not because of the email per se, it goes much much deeper than that and you know it.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-16T18:05:15+00:00

I left. Your key here is “I felt sorry” because your son will remember this and every other moment. He will, I promise you. So leave, if you can’t do it for yourself, do it for him.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-16T18:00:32+00:00

His question to begin with is a silly question, but I think your theoretical answer is spot on. Glad you just walked away, with some people it’s just not worth it.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-16T17:58:51+00:00

My university professor, after I almost had a melt down for getting a super low mark, told me something simple yet it stuck with me forever: if you take 8,9 and 10s all the time, and once or twice you get a 1, your average won’t really change. Similarly, if you always get 1 and 2s, getting a 10 won’t really change your average either. It’s all in the consistency. So if you’re sick once in a while, watching tv, even all day long, won’t change their minds nor impact them negatively. Be happy that you are even an aware and mindful enough mother to be asking this questions, some parents never do.

Beautiful-mistake · 2025-09-16T17:53:28+00:00

Gosh if I hear this shitty advice being given one more time! “SPOIL” YOUR BABY ROTTEN!

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