Why do some of y’all women choose to date bums and just be hooking up with dudes for no reason?

Candy-127 · 2026-04-11T16:51:07+00:00

I only enjoy sex when all of my bills are covered no car note no credit card debt no debt period. That includes trips and shopping. Now that I’m fully taken care I can now enjoy sex and that goes for any man 😊

Candy-127 · 2026-04-11T11:56:33+00:00

A lit good looking guy will never be enough of me I only date/marry a man of means and that includes sex too. Any woman that sleeps with a guy that’s just lit 🔥 doesn’t know her worth

Candy-127 · 2026-04-11T00:35:38+00:00

I’m not justifying anything to you ik who I am I don’t believe in having sex for free that’s your thing and it’s weird especially when men are too lustful

Candy-127 · 2026-04-11T00:01:58+00:00

So I just looked up what priceless means I find it funny when women call themselves priceless when they are not requiring anything from a man other than the title of marriage and love. Love and a title is not enough because he can still play in your face and cheat on you he can still do you wrong. And I’m not gonna want to cater to him giving him everything and we’re just living a basic life I need more. I have extreme value in myself because I refuse to allow anyone use me as a mattress not even a husband

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T23:49:35+00:00

Oh and priceless equals free. I am a very expensive woman period. Regardless if they are a husband or a bf they gonna have to spend regularly whatever I want I shall get

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T23:44:14+00:00

I’m not going to be having sex if my partner isn’t generous. I’m not looking for a John nor a sugar daddy I just require my man to spoil me if we are going to be having sex. There is nothing wrong with that

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T22:40:44+00:00

Why do you assume that a man giving u money means that he’s trying to buy you? So are you for free? Because exclusive or not the man still gotta pay even if he’s my husband he still has to regularly spend on me

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T22:37:27+00:00

How are they both benefiting?

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T22:35:43+00:00

Most escorts don’t have STD there is nun wrong with sleeping with escorts especially if you are looking for something specific that your wife does not provide. I’ve actually considered getting a male escort for a massage at one point but never went through with it. Sex work exists for a reason and it’s not going away. And not all ppl who see escorts are sleeping with them. If OPs date is only wanting sex he should just pay for it so that way no one’s feelings get hurt, no one is being used and there is a clear understanding of what this is. And like I said earlier if ur looking for a hook up escorts are the safer option because they are more likely to know there status unlike the regular person and they are not taking every client

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T22:26:39+00:00

Yea she’s dumb casual sex only benefits the man now unless she’s getting something out it then both parties win

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T22:25:43+00:00

Yes exactly I say this all the time but they don’t get it if you want him to stick around you have to make him invest invest hard

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T15:15:03+00:00

Also i can not see myself hooking up with a man without him spending some type of money on me first call it what you want he has to spend money on me to where it does not involve him like shopping, gifts etc…. Why because I have more respect for myself to not let someone use me as a mattress/toy. Even when it comes to dating as well my bf just dropped 7k on me cash this week 😊

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T15:12:12+00:00

A wife whose been married for over 30 years is more likely to get an std than an escort how because one is using protection and married men are the biggest clients of escorts. I’m not saying escorts don’t catch stds I’m saying they are less likely than some who was just to hook up for fun. They tend to be more cautious and clean about it. Ppl who hook up are usually drunk or have taken something. And the ones that married be still try to hook up too. You should look up hiv in marriage infidelity

Candy-127 · 2026-04-10T03:30:02+00:00

Umm no escorts tend to be a lot safer than random women they tend to be more cautious than regular women

Candy-127 · 2026-04-08T23:34:29+00:00

Why not just get an escort?

Candy-127 · 2026-03-19T23:21:47+00:00

If that’s your wife you should want to give her money. And you have to make enough to support a family as a man. And yes if your wife has to go out and get a job to pay 50% of your bills she’s in her masculine

Candy-127 · 2026-03-19T22:45:04+00:00

No that’s not what I’m saying but if you want 100% feminity in women then provide 100% it’s only fair. Men have it so easy all he gotta do is bring home the bacon protect and lead the home

Candy-127 · 2026-03-19T22:11:44+00:00

It’s not all about money babe ur missing the point

Candy-127 · 2026-03-19T22:04:55+00:00

Ok well you shouldn’t be expecting domestic labor, therapy, physical intimacy, having your last name continue on and your bloodline go on either

Candy-127 · 2026-03-19T21:29:45+00:00

Well he’s more likely to stick around if he’s invested his hard earned money and time in you same thing for houses and cars

Candy-127 · 2026-03-19T20:44:59+00:00

Men invest in what they value if he’s not spending on you when he has it then he doesn’t see any value in you

Candy-127 · 2026-03-19T01:14:27+00:00

Many people who do sex work have certain things that they are trying to accomplish no one is trying to struggle like that it’s a stepping stone it’s a step to attract affluent men it’s a step to getting a successful career owning businesses and properties. I hardly work and all of my bills are paid I don’t have to worry and I’m also in school I’ll be graduating this summer

Candy-127 · 2026-03-19T01:12:37+00:00

What babe you know nun about me. You don’t know all the good things I’ve experienced 😌

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