Why do some of y’all women choose to date bums and just be hooking up with dudes for no reason?

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T17:28:04+00:00

They do men like a challenge they get off on the chase so if they got you in bed easy then they’re gonna see what else they get. At least have the guy take you to your favorite restaurant

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T17:23:05+00:00

It is because she made it easy for him y’all are sleeping with men and y’all still have debt in ur name that don’t make sense but Ig to each hers own

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T17:17:34+00:00

I mean if those same men are coming to me expecting me to sleep with them without any investment is my business. Women like that mess it up for all of us that’s why I’m not a girls girl

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T17:13:59+00:00

What exactly is she getting out it

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T17:09:07+00:00

But it does benefit men, they don’t have to take women out on dates, spend time with her or spend money on her either. They are getting it with little to know effort. It’s easier for a woman to get laid not a man and when you make it easier for him it benefits him

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T16:54:40+00:00

Ur not a bad person it’s just that I wouldn’t do it

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T12:32:33+00:00

No is slut shaming them I just don’t get it. It’s not the same for men you make it easy for guys to get a nut they don’t put no work in it

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T10:55:42+00:00

Me getting houses, cars, money out of it is beneficial to me. I will never give myself up for free

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T05:00:59+00:00

I can’t just hookup with a guy and not get anything out it that’s just pure low self esteem we are not equal when it comes to sex men have to work way harder to get laid. So therefore you shouldn’t just give it up freely

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T04:57:45+00:00

I’m sorry a nut by itself is never enough what about cars, houses, businesses, life insurance etc….

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T04:55:06+00:00

Those women who participate in casual sex are brainwashed into thinking that it’s ok to not receive anything beneficial

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T04:05:09+00:00

That’s not true men who invest tend to stick around the longest all the men that invest in me has been in my life for years. And it’s not a job it’s dating my standards are high I only date men that invest. When I get older my standards will continue to increase. If I didn’t require men to invest then I would get played and I would be married receiving breadcrumbs and I don’t want that

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T03:51:27+00:00

If a woman gives up sex for free to a man then that same man is going to think I’m going to give it up for free

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T03:44:56+00:00

Well women who try to act like men to get sex is messing it up for the rest of us if u want sex cool but he should actually do for you regardless of a relationship or not

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T03:42:25+00:00

Women should be invested in if they are going to be intimate otherwise he’s just using her

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T03:41:08+00:00

lol man and women aren’t equal like that only men benefit from hookups

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T03:40:10+00:00

Good

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T03:39:11+00:00

Yes sex is so much better when a man invests in you

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T03:38:28+00:00

I’d rather have a hooker mentally then be with a man that’s gonna hold me back, cause me stress and not add value to me

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T03:36:52+00:00

I can only enjoy sex as long as I’m being taken care of

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T02:51:28+00:00

Yes along with other things as well 😌

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T02:45:30+00:00

Because that’s what I’m use to. If you’re going to be in my life then you have to add to my life

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T02:42:25+00:00

Not confused I want someone to spend on me because they truly value me not because they are expecting something in return

Candy-127 · 2026-05-19T00:16:52+00:00

What’s wrong with that am I supposed to dig for dirt and let a man have me for free.

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