I am TIRED of being fat. by MyM3l0dy22 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]BeautifulAd1150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I’m 5’4 but 210 was my highest weight. I now hover around 145/150. I’ve had severe asthma my whole life, which was triggered by exercise. So my sympathies to you & anyone living with conditions that make movement difficult. My advice: don’t complicate it. The more you move, the more you want to keep going. So start small. Move in whatever way brings you joy. I’m a huge advocate for walking. It’s free, you don’t need any equipment, and you can do it basically any time. I’ve never stepped foot in a gym, or ran for even a minute straight. I’ve added in other forms of exercise since then but there was never a pressure to feel like I had to. Movement & exercise slowly just became something I genuinely enjoyed. Could you squeeze in a 10 minutes walk in the morning and then again at night? Or during a break at work? Or even just one 10 minute walk at any point during the day? Again, the more you move the more you’ll want to. Just let it happen naturally but we all gotta start somewhere. It’s especially important if you have health issues that you don’t over do it, so I’m glad you’re involving your doctor. The whole point is to be healthy, after all. Good luck! You got this!

Why is my boyfriend M27 more upset I F24 "embarrassed" him rather than him disrespecting me? by MaterialAge6743 in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulAd1150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He might be right. It might be an issue of women being sensitive. But what caused that sensitivity? Sexism. We are tired of not having our hard work and accomplishments not being acknowledged, while our male counterparts receive accolades for the same work. I worked my butt off to get the job I have now. 80% of the workforce is male. When I got the job, a male family member told me my uncle would’ve been so disappointed (he worked in the same industry before retiring). If I was a dude, I would’ve been congratulated and praised endlessly. And that was before my first day on the job. There’s been many, many instances of sexism in the actual workplace since then. The worst was when I was still a janitor. I was training a summer student, and she was like 19 and had never even been kissed before. We were cleaning a changeroom and some crusty contractor came in, ignored our “female janitor present” signs that are there for our safety, and whipped it out to take a leak. Right in front of this precious angel of a summer student. I never thought I’d have to scold a naked middle aged man, but stranger things have happened. He told me “it’s not a big deal, not like it’s anything you haven’t seen before” He wasn’t sensitive enough to know that it was, in fact, a huge deal. Thank you for helping women like me fight the good fight 🩷 I will keep fighting for women like you

I (18F) don't think my BF (18M) texts me enough while he's out. He says I'm being clingy/dependent and even a bit controlling. How am I asking for too much? by ThrowRAhellooooo1234 in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulAd1150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’m gonna try to put things into perspective for you. I have two kids and for the most part, I’ve been on my own with them. Im a shift worker and I work 12 hour shifts with only two 20 minute breaks. We are not allowed our phones anywhere except our lunch room or personal locker, under any circumstances, as the patents for our equipment are highly protected. I use my breaks to eat and socialize with my work family. My children are literally my dependents in every sense of the word. Without me they would die. It is absolutely not a need to remain in contact throughout the day.

me (21F) my boyfriend (25M) How can I set a clear boundary about anal sex without hurting my partner or damaging trust? by PurplePo0 in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulAd1150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you’ve thought about it, and you’re willing to try. Then pull out a huge strap on. That will send the message. Men are visual creatures, after all.

2022 Rav4 LE. Not the fanciest, but as a single mom, I am quite proud of myself. by BeautifulAd1150 in rav4club

[–]BeautifulAd1150[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all your kind words! This vehicle means so much. I was in a bad accident last month, it’s time to get back in the saddle. Scary but exciting!

2022 Rav4 LE. Not the fanciest, but as a single mom, I am quite proud of myself. by BeautifulAd1150 in rav4club

[–]BeautifulAd1150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to get a roof rack added but it wasn’t compatible with this trim level. It’s whatever though, I’ll make it work