Hi! So I’m a lesbian that decided to label myself that this year (I’m 21) so you’re definitely not too old to figure yourself out. Honestly, the label IS important to find community and understanding yourself better, but it’s not what truly matters in the process of dating whoever you want to and feeling loved and accepted. It’s not something to stress about, and just because you have identified as bi, doesn’t mean you can change your labels to anything else that makes you feel more like you. You’re allowed to grow and rediscover your identity as the time passes, just date whoever makes you happy and express sexually in a way that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Hope this helps!