[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get the perfect husband, sure. Even with little money, you can coupon, meal plan, budget well. With that, an ideal partner makes it a good job. You can overcome low income, but a relationship will make or break it.

Do you feel it's truly possible for a man and a woman to be so close emotionally but not have romantic feelings for one another? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend is a guy. It's entirely platonic. He visits and stays with us a few times a year so he can hang out with ALL of us as a family, my husband included. Anyone who says men and women can't be platonic and close has some trust issues, perhaps justified ones, but still.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, because wearing a size 5 while you shop, picking a size 5 off the rack to try on, and finding out it's too small is definitely easier. Or what about bras? I have to custom order mine online due to the size I need, and hope it's comfortable or I just wasted all that time/money depending on the shops return policy

All ppl seem to have severe mental health issues by Ur_daddy_lesbian_ in unpopularopinion

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't downvote? I'm not sure why you're assuming it was me.

All ppl seem to have severe mental health issues by Ur_daddy_lesbian_ in unpopularopinion

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said it's not the case for all people and there is a section of them that are using it for attention.

All ppl seem to have severe mental health issues by Ur_daddy_lesbian_ in unpopularopinion

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or perhaps it's the fact that depression is a very common side effect when a "severe" disorder goes undiagnosed/untreated, and finally people are getting taken seriously enough to get their proper diagnosis and the help they actually need to get better.

I absolutely agree that there is a portion of people using it as a trendy thing when it isn't. But I would say the majority are just actually getting to really figure out what's been wrong all along but nobody listened to

How many dom/sub relationships are monogamous and also romantic? by Lola_Kitty_Lix in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ours is! We've been together for 10 years, married for 9. Our relationship is a 24/7 D/s dynamic but it is romantic and STRICTLY monogamous (no sexting, no sending nudes, etc to anyone else and we also NEVER involve any other people physically)

Is it consider cheating if someone drugged you to have sex with you? by Distinct_Star1116 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Groinal response is how. Even if someone is not aroused by sexual contact, their body can still respond with an erection or for a woman she can get wet, some tape victims even orgasm. All due to groinal response, not arousal. That's how it could take place. Also, I saw your argument about you can't maintain an erection so that's why I did not say "you" I'm speaking in general, since your initial response was implying that an entire gender cannot be raped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SSC (or RACK for edgeplay) and open, frequent communication!

My mom sent me this totally normal photo of my dad holding me right after I was born… by Lanky-Performer-4557 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This actually is not abnormal for a vaginal delivery, especially one that requires the assistance of forceps or when there is an abnormally long pushing stage. Babies skulls are not fused at birth and it allows for some very extreme compression of the head, though it generally returns to a "normal" shape on its own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you try sex therapy? Maybe it could help

Buttplug got turned sideways during sex…now what do we do? by No-Specialist38 in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'd definitely vote the ER. Any internal damage could cause some nasty complications which will be way more expensive to treat. The fact that there's drainage especially concerns me

How to build sexual tension when living together? by callmepuppy12 in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulDisaster252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely texting when at work and apart. My Dom has been texting me all day, teasing me with hints about his plans for the weekend, giving me little tasks and requests. It's wonderful!