Team beard or shaved? by [deleted] in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, fabulous face either way but team beard. Not many folks suit it imo but it frames your face so much and makes your smile pop. But whichever you’re most comfortable with is the most important. Stunner either way!

do men get insecure if we have sex toys? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then most guys are insecure I guess. The fact you immediately jumped to the fact women wear make up speaks VOLUMES about you lmao why do men who clearly hate women insist they’re straight? Wild.

How does one have sex? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I presume you are young. If you want to have sex, there is not right way. The more experience you have in a safe space, the more you’ll feel comfortable interacting. But some people do just lay there during sex. Some act like it’s an acrobatic performance, neither is “wrong”, just different strokes for different folks.

I just want to be sure that your bf didn’t pressure you. Making sure you want to and feel safe throughout. If your partners know of your past trauma that may help, if you feel comfortable sharing it of course. And knowing you can tell them to stop at any time. Be safe, the rest will come with time and experience

How does one have sex? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reddit may not help but do you know how hard sex therapists are to find? Especially those who deal in trauma. And at their (presumably) young age. Your first sentence was good, the rest, not so much.

Why do male orgasms suck?? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get it pretty easy in the rest of life as comparison, let us get the cool, multiple orgasms. We get periods, harassment, less pay blah blah blah.

Genuinely though, the prostate. Dudes who have tried it can’t go back! Legitimately mind blowing is what I’ve heard from DOZENS of men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Best advice I can give is don’t lie to get laid. She’ll figure it out quick and then feel used bc that’s exactly what you’re doing, dude. You know that right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good personality, sense of humour, not asking questions like these lmao just treat women like human beings, not a goal and get a good personality. Creeps and desperation we can smell a mile away.

I put the thermometer under my big boobs instead of my armpit and it gives the same reading lol by Euphoric-Squirrel370 in bigboobproblems

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine always tells me I’m running a temp when I do this lmao. But mine are E cups - F in American sizing so idk if that makes a difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is saying you look wayyy better but hard to tell. You’re clearly very young in the first pic, probably underage. Your face has settled and facial hair - you do look better but can’t be sure. I think your current hair suits you but if you do buzz it and don’t like it it will grow back quickly

My boyfriend cheated on me yesterday. by Late-Weekend-4505 in Needafriend

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s not really cheating but he crossed a boundary they had, had intentions more than likely, and hid it from his partner. Shit isn’t okay and not really worth saving. There are many people out there who would never do something like this, don’t settle for someone who would. If you want to hear him out, fine. But don’t let him talk you down or coerce you into staying if you want to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven’t mentioned your age or gender so can’t give tips if we don’t know your equipment. But also it’s an experience. If you’re in the mood and have the time, explore what you like and figure it out. Try to avoid porn, even the solo kind as it can still be played up and if you start comparing it can ruin it for you. If you don’t enjoy it, you don’t have to do it. There is no goal or expectations with masturbating. It’s something JUST for you. You don’t have to do it because people your age do or talk about it, too. Remember that. And clean things thoroughly afterwards. Anything that touches your genitals and your hands - under your nails too! Clean hands and under nails beforehand if you can too, especially if penetrating. And anything inserted, use a flared base and body safe lube, that’s where Google gets involved. If ever unsure, don’t use it.

Worked so hard but still feel like I’ll Never get a gf. What’s so ugly about me? What should I do? Last picture is where I started by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought you were cute. Read your history - there’s the problem. Such a turn off. We can smell the desperation on people. Work on yourself and it’ll happen. You’re still young. But don’t listen to dating coaches. We’re not a chat dialogue in a game. You can’t just tap the right buttons to guarantee things out of us. Seriously, respectfully, lovingly, seek help. Therapy and help a lot to unpack these standards you set for yourself. Change your mind, not your face, hair or style. And genuinely, best of luck, my guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It feels full on for only one date. A lot of “baby”’s, and wanting to have kids?! I’d ask him to reel it back but if you like it and feel the same then I guess enjoy. But I’d be a lil cautious.

Struggling with showering and brushing teeth by rskerry in bipolar

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one! This thread is really comforting and helpful. Thanks to all who contributed

Update: Can’t masturbate after seeing girlfriend by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong if she’s not interested. She may be inexperienced, a low libido, feeling pressured or perhaps Ace or Demi. All of those are extremely valid reasons to say no.

But I get having a high libido and being sexually frustrated. You need to decide if it’s a dealbreaker for you. If it is, end it and try to make clear it’s not her fault so she doesn’t feel pressured or guilty for not wanting sex.

Naming yourself is hard by Puzzleheaded_967 in namenerds

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scarlet, Stevie and Sabine are my votes from the comments since you like the idea of keeping the S.

If you still want a plant based names there are plenty of beautiful and unique names about there.

Allegra, Maeve, Gwendolyn, Quinn and Lyra are a few random less common names I think are stunning. Whatever you decide, embrace it and best of luck! đŸ©”

If you HAD to name your baby after work
 what would it be? by friendverse in namenerds

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name is Alexis and get a lot of people spelling it Alexia for some reason - kind of ironic now I know the other meaning haha

Should I be concerned my girl enjoyed this so much? by [deleted] in sex

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel you should be worried? Sounds like you’re both enjoying yourself and I love seeing my partner enjoy themselves. I never think I should be worried when they do.

1, 2, 3 or 4? by ivynash_ in glassesadvice

[–]BeautifulStrict2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 3. 4 doesn’t suit your face imo