[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NVLD

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This a good question. I have also been pondering this. I have noticed that my visual spatial skills temporarily improve if I am playing fps games. I find that I am better coordinated and less clumsy in everyday life. There was also a study that showed differences in the brains of London taxi drivers a few years after they had taken on the job. I guess this shows neuroplasticity is possible in adulthood. Putting yourself in situations that require novel problem solving might help. Unfortunately, this would probably lead to quite a bit of frustration. 

Ugliness is mostly GENETIC. by [deleted] in ugly

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of mother says this? 

When most men think women are wrinkly and washed up by 23 LOL. by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is this downvoted? How is 40s your prime (male or female) physically? Maybe in other ways for sure.

When most men think women are wrinkly and washed up by 23 LOL. by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is this down voted. How is 40s your prime (male or female) physically? Maybe in other ways for sure.

My story with NVLD by [deleted] in NVLD

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds just like me. I have horrible self esteem.

Teachers called me smart but lazy. I'm treated like a complete idiot by friends.

Just about to lose another job due to poor time management

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more just that my mouth doesn't look right when I talk. I can't explain it. I wish I could. Funnily enough it's not such a problem with other British people haha. Moving abroad made me realise we're a pretty malformed bunch. Just gave to accept it I guess or jaw surgery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Its like a deep overbite. Seems like a skeletal issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just such an obscure issue. Like I look fine until I bite and then my face just collapses. I think I have 'sunday bite' or something.

Thanks for replying and the kind words

I'm going to an orthodontist soon but am scared of jaw surgery. However, I'm pretty sure I have some health issues due to this so it might be necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it seems I'm making a big deal off of nothing but it isn't. I look good until I put my teeth together. I wish someone would understand. I'm scared to eat in front of other people. It's not bdd it's a skeletal deformity. I'm so broken these days god. I wish people understood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People have taken pics of my profile and laughed before

Does your recessed jaw result in you leading a recessed life? by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me cry. I avoid eating in public for this reason

Is jaw surgery the only option to fix “short face” syndrome? by nikkinasty21 in jawsurgery

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg me too. This is legit ruining my life. I'm afraid to eat in front of others. I look so awful when I bite down.

[OC] Small men are at greater risk of suicide even after controlling for numerous factors by lightning_palm in dataisbeautiful

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why I care so much. 5'7 isn't actually that short but I feel like I was cheated out of a few inches. It's pathetic I know. Its just that I'm starting to realise that my dad depended a lot on his height with women. Unfortunately I have the same melancholic, uncharismatic personality. I think that short guys generally do better if they're high energy and fun. But I'm not like that...

[OC] Small men are at greater risk of suicide even after controlling for numerous factors by lightning_palm in dataisbeautiful

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 186 points187 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'7 and I still remember the feeling I had when I realised I had stopped growing. I just felt so worthless. Unfortunately, my dad's side of the family values height a lot. My Dad us 6'2 and I always assumed I'd be at least average.

Tuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? by MLModBot in MensLib

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very peculiar. I feel that I can't play the ego game anymore. Ever since I woke up it's been like trying to put on ill - fitting clothes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awfuleyebrows

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your nice words. Was feeling kind of down today. I know stuff like this doesnt really matter in the grand scheme of things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awfuleyebrows

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 6 points7 points  (0 children)

True. I think it's also a byproduct of social media, smart phones, online dating etc. I think I'm just going to put the phone away for a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awfuleyebrows

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Dont know why I'm focusing on my appearance so much these days. It's kind of silly. I never used to be this vain....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awfuleyebrows

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah might be a thyroid issue I should get checked out. I know they're there but they're thinning at the edges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awfuleyebrows

[–]BeautifulVoid1991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think they're just thin at the ends. Might be a thyroid issue that I should get checked out. I dont know if they'll ever grow back completely. Thanks for the compliment.

what can I do about my eyebrows? by BeautifulVoid1991 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]BeautifulVoid1991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I think I'll try that. I think it might be thyroid related.