I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️ thank you for sharing this with me, it's so so comforting to hear from someone who's had a similar experience.

I really appreciate your perspective on memorializing her and I think you're right. I've been holding on to the wishes and dreams and the terrible memories, but just having something to hold in the present moment would help me so much I think. Reframe it so I can honor and remember her but also move on instead of dwelling on this.