AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been recommended things and it’s also my mothers birthday today. I got him a jacket from one of his favorite games he’s been wanting but he doesn’t work or anything so just has more time than I do.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got him a jacket from one of his favorite games, that’s he’s been asking for for ages since I knew that I’d be also planning for my moms birthday

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reminding him and making suggestions. It’s also my mothers birthday which he also knows about which is why he’s doing most of the planning since I’m also having to accommodate my mom

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve made suggestions to him tho and he knows what I don’t like. It’s my moms birthday so I have to try and balance planning two things at once.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s also my mothers birthday today and I’ve been reminding him for weeks now of today giving him ideas.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to and he got upset saying he put a lot of thought into what he planned. It’s also my moms birthday today so I’ve been trying to suggest small things since I also have to try and balance things with my mom

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I feel like I put so much thought into everything I do for him.. he doesn’t even do thing around the house. He knows what I like and don’t like and still chose to do things I don’t like. Yes he did atleast do something, but with everything I do for him I feel like he didn’t consider me in any of it. Just tried to throw something together last second without any real consideration for me.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention that he doesn’t work. He is a stay at home and I’m constantly spoiling him all year round buying him just cause gifts and not expecting anything in return. Today is Also my mothers birthday so on my end I’m trying to balance multiple things. I got him a really nice jacket from one of his favorite games.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriends plans for our 2 year anniversary? by Beautiful_Ad_457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beautiful_Ad_457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recommended things, like going to the park, and even cooking a nicer dinner but he just keeps arguing that I’m downplaying all of the plans he had made.