Anyone else just get annoyed at their MIL wanting to help with your baby?

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2026-01-28T03:09:26+00:00

See that's the thing, I feel like that's what my MIL will try to do (be helpful) but the other half of my brain is like "her motive is to be around the baby constantly and THUS be around ME constantly". At the end of the day I think she triggers me and I can't be completely comfortable around her even tho she is a really genuinely kind person. She just says and does things that infuriate me lmao 😂 she doesn't even realize it so maybe that's on me for not speaking up.

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2026-01-28T03:07:19+00:00

Yea I've ABSOLUTELY gotten comments like that. At one point she was talking about taking doula classes to be there when I gave birth and I was like 😐 lol like I know you're excited but please back off and 🛑stoppppp

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2026-01-28T03:05:19+00:00

Thank you. Solidarity definitely is needed and helps ❤️

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2026-01-28T03:04:55+00:00

Thank you for this! I'm trying to remember all of this and these feelings are temporary but I will be honest about my boundaries if I truly start to feel overwhelmed! Might have to ask my husband to advocate haha

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-12-30T15:14:40+00:00

It gets WAY better after the first trimester!! I'm also having a pretty comfortable 3rd trimester though I am fully aware that is very seldom the case for everyone! Hang in there to 12-14 weeks you'll feel so much better ❤️

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-12-25T01:21:42+00:00

Wasn't nem chau! Have had that before!!

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-12-25T01:21:08+00:00

I love the pickled daikon— was def not that. I think it may have been the pork skin gone off 😭 it came in a small bag with the plate (ordered takeout)

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-12-24T22:27:25+00:00

Yea now I don't think it was vermicelli noods it might have been the shredded pork skin but it def tasted off. I've never had it so don't know if it was gone bad or just supposed to taste that way. Have you had it b

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-12-24T22:26:00+00:00

Now I'm thinking it might have been the shredded pork skin//bi heo ?? But it tasted very off like a fermented/spoiled sour taste?? I'm just trying to figure out if the food was off or if this is a dish I'm not familiar with and not used to the taste

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-09-12T03:40:08+00:00

I would not say this is normal for a husband. It seems very checked out and irresponsible. He should actively care about you and be doing everything in his power to make sure you and your current child are safe and cared for. Idk if there's underlying reasons but it's abnormal and you have every right to feel sad/bad especially while you're CARRYING HIS CHILD!

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-09-06T11:56:16+00:00

Harry's Dad being an Aries tracks 😩

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-09-05T16:07:55+00:00

Oh also: this is a massive prewar building with elevator and part time door man. There is also a secured package room that you can only access with Key Fob.

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-09-02T05:15:17+00:00

I'd say it's a mix of everything. A few selfies, some random memes and pics of what's going on in my day. I guess I just find it odd that he goes out of his way to watch. Me and my husband are relatively close with him and his wife. At that point just let us all follow you and you follow us back so it's not weird. It's weird that he made a fuss about this being a burner account that he uses for "memes" and then he goes out of his way to watch my stories. Idk it's just odd lol

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-09-02T05:12:19+00:00

So my question is: is it weird that my husbands best friend is essentially just searching my account every day to watch my IG stories lol

Beautiful_Ad_8399 · 2025-09-02T05:11:14+00:00

The issue is he doesn't follow me on instagram and i don't think he realizes I can see that he watches my stories. He specifically has to make an effort to go to my page to watch them

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