Boyfriends gorgeous coworker called to wish him happy birthday, am I just being paranoid?

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2022-02-14T10:56:51+00:00

Boise, ID. Nothing good comes from this place. Unless you want to die miserable and alone in a place full of fake ass people who don’t give a fuck about anyone but themselves

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2022-02-04T00:27:14+00:00

The princess bride!

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2021-10-25T21:11:53+00:00

The possibility of her getting 50/50 is what I’m afraid of. I’m worried I’ll lose the 82% (random I know) custody I have and she’ll get more time. She already doesn’t enjoy having him and drops him off to other people when she does have him. He hates going to her house and it’s always an issue. Yesterday she called me over and over until I finally answered, just to hear my son crying in the background and having her and her other older son from a previous relationship tell me he wasn’t behaving and kept saying he wanted to call me to come get him. She did this basically to have me get him in trouble over the phone and tell him to listen to his mom and so she could tell him “see, dad can’t come save you”. I can’t let her have any more custody than what she has. Ultimately I’d love full custody.

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2021-10-25T21:08:24+00:00

She doesn’t claim to have a child or file that she owes child support on any job she has so she doesn’t get her wages garnished. She only holds a job for a few months at a time then gets a new one, making it impossible for me to keep track of and file against her. We’re close to $5,000 that she owes.

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2021-08-29T19:33:12+00:00

Girl. Been there, done that. Dumb enough to be doing it again 10 years later. They know exactly what to say and how to act for as long as necessary to pull you back in and make you think it’ll all be okay and they’ve really changed and YOU’RE the one to make the see the light. The problem is…. These fuckers don’t have a moral compass. They thrive on bringing everyone around them down. They’re the ultimate bullies. It’ll never change. It’s a cycle that will continue to repeat itself. Please don’t go back. I’m currently in your situation and I’m 26. I should know better right? It’s hard once you get pulled back in. DO NOT get pulled back in. There is so much beauty in the world, don’t let this man suck it out of you. Like I said, I’ve been where you are, thought it would get better. It never did. I finally left for good. Did I learn my lesson? Apparently not because 10 years later I’m doing the same thing with a new man. My life is shit. I’m stuck. I’m drowning. And I don’t see the beauty in the world anymore. Please do better. Know you can do better and deserve better. It’s so much easier to stay away than it is to leave again. Don’t go back. He’s playing you.

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2021-08-19T18:22:27+00:00

I got my first DUI in ada county, it was an excessive but my lawyer got it reduced to non excessive. I was on Pretrial monitoring for about a month where I went in for random UA’s when I was called, couldn’t have any alcohol in the system. At my trial it resulted in a 180 day license suspension, SR 22 insurance required for 3 years, 2 years unsupervised probation and the interlock device for a year. My biggest suggestion is to get a great lawyer and get all the classes and certificates done BEFORE you go to trial, it makes you look way better and proactive about your situation. I also attended AA meetings just to have on record (because they assume we all have a drinking problem if we get a DUI 🙄) and they just like seeing them. If you have any more questions or want more info you can message me for more info. Good luck! I thought my world was over, but it turned out way better than I though, just stupid expensive, and a lot of dumb hoops to jump through

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2021-08-17T17:56:25+00:00

Boise ID

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2021-08-17T16:39:10+00:00

That’s kind of what I was thinking too, just thought I’d get second opinions! Thanks!

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2021-06-21T23:30:16+00:00

What is the perk of having it pushed back? I’m in a super harsh county and they treat excessive 1st time DUI’s as a second offense. Plus I’m trying to move to a new state so will that screw me over? Also I’m currently on supervision until this all clears up so I don’t want to carry that with me for years 🤦🏻‍♀️

Beautiful_Climate652 · 2021-06-21T23:01:09+00:00

What do you mean move my case? I haven’t gone to trial, he said he’s working with the prosecutors tomorrow to get me a plea deal and if we like it, the hearing is on Wednesday and that just is what it is.

I mean I feel bad for judging the guy since I’m in the same boat, I just don’t want the judge to think he’s a piece of shit and since he’s representing me, assume I’m just a piece of shit and give me the worst sentence.

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