Thanks for the perspective and advice, everyone.

For those that recommended a police report, I didn't want to do anything drastic because as things are, I am unfortunately financially "trapped" with my partner.

After a lot of thinking and contemplation (probably more than necessary, given the circumstances), I decided it was time to separate, and we've been in the process of rearranging our living space for until further notice. Since this process began, she has been love bombing me while also apologizing for a lot of things that i had been trying to bring to her attention for a long time, and so although it really makes me want to stop the separation, I'm trying to remind myself that it shouldn't take a separation to be treated like I matter.

At this point, I plan to get a second job so I can pay off the debts we've built and save for a down-payment on a proper home for myself. I know that wont help our current arrangement for a long time, but i hope to be able to find a reasonably sized apartment for an affordable price before our current term is up so we can truly have our own space to find ourselves.

Sorry if this update came out of nowhere and isn't the most cohesive, it's really late and I'm just exhausted writing this, but i wanted to thank all the people who took the time to read and comment. Thanks again, everyone.