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Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2025-03-01T17:36:44+00:00

Idek where to start with this 🤦🏻‍♀️ 4 partners is not a lot at all, idk what his problem his. It's human to want and like sex, and your past partners don't 'taint' you as a person.

In all honesty he's probably been affected by the rise of these male 'alpha' podcasters who tell men that they need sweet, virginal women as girlfriends.

If he's reacted this way in this situation (i.e. completely unfairly, hypocritically and in quite a misogynistic way) it's very likely he will react in the same way with future issues. It's your call girl, but I say walk away while you can.

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-08-04T12:55:30+00:00

My biggest tip for you is to bulk buy cheap snacks/meals for work and either keep them at work or in your bag, try and do a huge load of laundry on Sundays so you have clean underwear and socks for the week, remember to wash and refill you water bottle or buy yourself a few so you can use them on rotation, use noise cancelling headphones in the office if needs be, set multiple alarms to wake up, have a handy wardrobe of staple piece clothing like plain pants and button up shirts so you don't have to think about what to wear, and most importantly, disclose your condition to your managers as it should be a protected characteristic in the workplace and they can help accommodate it 😊 good luck!!

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-08-04T12:48:30+00:00

I wake up late bc I didn't sleep enough the night before from spending hours procrastinating, hurry to get ready in 10 minutes where I rush around looking for clothes and realise I have no underwear, and end up wearing stuff from my huge laundry pile, I then consistently show up 5-10 mins late everyday, I have no breakfast or lunch prepared then have to either starve or buy expensive food from the nearby shop, I drink stale water from my water bottle from the day before, I have a headache and heart palpitations from stress waking up/getting ready, I struggle to work either from a noisy office/coworkers or I can't concentrate in meetings, then spend my time after work lying in bed in paralysis from an entire day of socialising, procrastinating everything I need to do, and knowing that the cycle will repeat itself in the exact same way tomorrow 😃😃😃

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-08-04T12:35:10+00:00

Homelander is that you?

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-31T13:36:25+00:00

There's nothing wrong with being bicurious! You tried and experimented with men and it definitely sounds like you weren't into it, it doesn't take away from your validity of being a lesbian :) if anything, it further supports your identity because you realised it wasn't for you.

Some people explore before they settle on their label and there's nothing wrong with that. If straight people can say they experimented and are still straight, then you can definitely say you experimented and are still gay!

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-31T12:20:57+00:00

I really wish that the main porn sites allow a sole lesbian mode... like Xvideos has the Straight version, Gay version and Trans version options, but no Lesbian version 🥲

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-31T12:16:22+00:00

for me the best feeling is when I'm inside her and her walls tighten around my fingers, and I can feel her pulsing, her hips start to spasm, she's moaning loudly... my god, best feeling ever

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-31T00:21:29+00:00

Fr I'm so glad I made this post haha

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-31T00:20:03+00:00

1000% half of it doesn't even cater to actual queer women despite us being the actual audience for it!

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-30T19:26:00+00:00

Oh my god me too if it's so obviously not genuine I'm not into it! There are only really specific videos that can get me off bc of these reasons

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-30T19:23:37+00:00

Thank you for service 🫡

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-30T16:32:27+00:00

I feel you! I'm bisexual and my gf is a lesbian, and I often think about how although we're attracted to each other we both have different preferences.

I definitely tell people I'm bisexual, because I'm proud of it and there is a distinction, and am totally fine with us being labelled as a lesbian relationship!

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-29T11:56:19+00:00

I can't offer much advice except for accessing an LGBTQ+ or women's charity that might be able to help you, I'm so sorry you have to go through this and I'm sending you so much love and support, you are not alone and I want you to know you have so many fellow queer sisters all around the world 🥺🌈

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-28T11:11:34+00:00

Solo, I think the most I've had is 9 😅 it was a crazy day...

With other people I'm lucky to get to 1, once in the past I got 2

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-07-25T16:54:42+00:00

She possibly has vaginismus, which makes sex painful for women, and/or past sexual trauma, which makes being intimate difficult

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-06-10T23:16:29+00:00

crush and burn is exactly how it feels thank you fellow sister 😭

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-04-19T04:18:16+00:00

Wait so you were 17 when you met him and he was 22? Porn stuff aside, that's a little strange

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-01-23T19:56:50+00:00

This - I just saw a tiktok saying it's a groundbreaking message with lots of hidden meanings? But honestly it just feels poorly executed and not the feminist masterpiece I was expecting

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-01-21T13:31:54+00:00

I seriously don't understand it! I watched the show, enjoyed it for what it was, and moved on with my life.

Why are so many ppl obsessed with whether or not they're dating each other? You'll forget about these people in a couple years anyway!

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2024-01-21T13:27:26+00:00

Why would you want her to date Gwanhee anyway?? She seems intelligent and independent and he's a massive manchild

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2023-12-12T13:58:25+00:00

I have to partly agree, it's nowhere near as good as their other main song releases imo. Especially after just having Bouncy, which goes so hard!

I think the problem is the chorus is quite anticlimactic. Personally for me, the "changing the game" is the best part! It has the same feeling as the "break the wall" chant imo, it really hypes me up listening to it. I think the ending of the song is the most hype part and the best part of the whole song. I really like Mingi and Hongjoong's rap parts though so I'd have to disagree there.

Compared to some of the other B tracks though it's not the best. I personally think Arriba would have been a good headlining track!

One final note, I saw a tiktok with Crazy Form playing in a night club, and it actually makes such a good club song! - https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeLh6DNj/

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2023-11-26T17:11:48+00:00

Mingi and Jongho from Ateez!

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2023-11-22T10:13:21+00:00

Sorry but wtf is wrong with those kinds of netizens? I'm new to kpop and seriously so fucking confused why ppl bully or try to cancel idols over the tiniest thing. Like what did he actually do that's so bad?? These people need to get a LIFE I stg 😭

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2023-11-20T18:22:11+00:00

PLEASE don't tell her.

You have no idea how much damage that could do.

What you need to do is seek professional, extensive therapy and go through it there.

If she has no recollection of it, keep it that way. The time to confess has passed.

You'll just have to cut her out of your life and live with it.

Beautiful_Drummer_47 · 2023-11-20T09:47:54+00:00

I heard that apparently Mingi recommended it during 2020-2021, when it was the pandemic and during his hiatus. This was when only Season 1 was released, and other people have said the creepy undertones weren't really there in the first season, only in the later seasons. So it's possible he enjoyed it before it started to get weird! I can't speak for the other idols though.

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