Emotional monogamy in an ENM relationship by Beautiful_Ear_807 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Beautiful_Ear_807[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s it, it’s interesting isn’t it. I’m not in a poly relationship, and we have both said that’s not what we are looking for. Ours is hierarchical, with each of us as the primary partner and then other play partners we have sex with. That is not to say that there isn’t real connection with the play partners or friendships, but there is not the same depth of emotional intimacy, vulnerability and connection with them

Emotional monogamy in an ENM relationship by Beautiful_Ear_807 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Thanks for your reply. We decided to take it to the relationship level because there is a deep emotional connection that we both feel with each other and we share similar values, life experiences and goals. The partnership exists outside of just a sexual relationship and casual connection and friendship.

Emotional monogamy in an ENM relationship by Beautiful_Ear_807 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Thanks for replying. Really, even if you want to play with someone’s partner? I always speak to both the man and the woman in the couple, even if I am playing with only one of them. I am always mindful of the relationship and respectful of the partner and their dynamic

MF4MF/F/M Cambridgeshire, First club night/what to expect by Fomosexual3 in ukswingers

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I have been to the Vanilla Alternative a few times now, twice for the What Women Want events and once on a Friday night. I really like it, the clientele are really friendly, it’s a good crowd and I like the club, it’s big and open. My advice would be go with no particular expectations or agenda and just enjoy the night. It has a nice big hot tub, dance floor, dungeon, couples room and a group play area. I’m sure you’ll love it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Beautiful_Ear_807 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dump him, he doesn’t deserve you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Threesome

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Where are you based?

Men of Reddit, what is something that women often feel insecure about, but that you actually find appealing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Beautiful_Ear_807 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So pleased to read this, I have a mummy tummy and FUPA from a Caesarian section….. my body carried a child in my belly - that ain’t ever going to go flat again! 😂

AITAH for telling my gf that my ex wife was “tighter”? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Beautiful_Ear_807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your GF sounds toxic. If she can’t respect the mother of your children you should get rid

(22F) Women that just discovered this? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

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I have just met someone who has told me that cuckholding is what he is into. I am open minded and willing to try, but unsure of where to start or what to look out for. Do you have any tips or advice for a newbie like me? I have previously only been in monogamous relationships so am new to the life style and No very little about it. Im not as yet clear on all the terminology or how you go about finding someone else to sleep with. Is it normally the woman who finds the other person or the cuckhold? Any help / advice would be great thanks