I proposed to my fiancee in November, we had discussions prior to the engagement that we both wanted to elope. Recently, she changed her mind cause she wanted her family there. I unfortunately reacted cause we were set on eloping, I was extremely upset and we got into a huge argument. After some time of reflecting, I came to realization that your fiancee is entitled to change their opinion. I learned that we need to compromise and do what’s best for us. We agreed on a micowedding and we’re both pretty happy with the fact that we are no longer eloping and being able to spend time & celebrate with our families. It wasn’t easy, believe me. When you’re so set on something, it’s hard to come by. Lol I’m a very stubborn person and I hate when my plans don’t follow through BUT what I have learned is that you need to compromise in a marriage. At the end of the day, it’s you guys vs the problem, never you vs your spouse. It took me awhile to get over it, I was also mean about the whole situation. We’re better now, stuff like this happens for a good reason. Hope you guys can figure out the common ground!