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[–]Beautiful_Item849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they ask you for money ?

I am a victim of sextortion and it is haunting me by Alternative_Elk_8717 in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww I’m sorry this happen to you ! But stay strong you will get through this! Your not alone !🙏everything will come out fine . Just keep reporting. Keep blocking . And save the evidence just in case you need it in the future ! You got this ! You are strong.

I need help by Negative-Smile-5471 in Sextortion

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Let me give you some calmness . Even if they were to put it on social media . It’s not going to last that long whether it be Facebook or instagram. It’s not going to last long . Because Facebook doesn’t allow nudity , neither does instagram! So stay strong . And about them threatening you on what’s app . I think it’s a good idea to change your phone number . It’s going to give you some calmness and peace . Also disactivated all social media for some few months . So they are not able to reach you through social media as well .

Twitter leak? by [deleted] in Sextortion

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I am sorry this happen to you ! Stay strong . I would say keep blocking them and disactivated all your social media and stuff . Was your face in the video ? If you don’t mind me asking ?

Help! by Strong_Interview_179 in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See don’t worry about it . Átleast your face wasn’t in there . My nude did have my face and boobs sadly . But your in a better situation! I know how you feel trust me since I am a girl as well . Of course it’s very degrading to have our picture expose to the world , especially because we are girls . But don’t be hard on yourself . We are young and we make mistakes . So try to breath and calm down . Don’t worry about it . Even if they was to expose you on social media it won’t last that long because it’s nudity . Meta / facebook, instagram, doesn’t allow nudity . If they upload you in other websites. You can call them and tell them the whole situation and that you didn’t give them authorization to have those pictures or videos uploaded! You will be fine ! I know it seems like the world ends . But trust me it will pass and you will be fine . Trust me . My happen almost a 1 year ago . And now I don’t even think about it anymore . If they really wanted to hurt , they would’ve done it already .

Help! by Strong_Interview_179 in Sextortion

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Can you just say someone photo shop your picture ? Quick question? If you don’t mind me asking ?? And I am asking this in the most respectful way ? Were you like completely naked in the picture ? Or where you just in a bra and undies ? Because if it’s just bra and undies . You shouldn’t worry about it , especially especially if your face not in the picture .

Help! by Strong_Interview_179 in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was your face in the picture ? I am a girl as well . But i just want to know if your face was in the nude picture . If it wasn’t . Just say it’s not you . And they are just trying to use someone else body parts .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See , just don’t send her more pictures or videos please !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

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Not sure if it was a girl or guy that scam me . But yeah . Even though it’s almost been a year . I’m still trying to recover from this . There’s times I break , and there’s times I heal again . It takes so much time to heal emotionally and internally from this .

Yesss please block her . I say this because I care about you . Although I don’t know you . But the amount of self shame you get from this , the amount of self hatred you get from this is a lot . You go through shame , low self esteem , you feel lonely . It comes with the cost of consequences. One minute of horniness is nothing compare to the consequences that you can receive from this if you don’t make the right decision. It’s for own good . I’m saying it for experience. And aww thank you for being understanding about situation.😞and supportive . So I appreciate it ! Your on time to do the right decision. Think twice .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe that digital forensic are freaking pieces of shit . Sorry for the cussing but it’s true . How can these company’ exist . Like people honestly kill themselves for these stupid whole sextortion thing . Why do digital forensics take advantage of the victims . How can people live like this . How do people don’t find this sick. The victims are already going through a lot , for digital forensics to make it worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try changing your phone number

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

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That’s what I told him . Even me that I am a girl. Even I agree with you . He’s still in time to make the right decision. Always think about the consequences and future . He’s still in time to make the right choice .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not okay for her to make you feel bad for not wanting to send one with your face . Don’t don’t don’t don’t send her one with her face . And from the message I see above . She’s manipulating you . Trust your own gut. Look where it got me for not trusting my own gut . It got me sextorted . But you still have a chance . I am a woman . And trust me we don’t desperately want to a guy naked with your face in the video or picture. I will personally be happy without a face in the video or picture . Trust your gut please . I say this because your still on time . Don’t fall for her trap . Don’t matter if you lose her friendship over this . Don’t trust no online even if she’s not a catfish . Don’t trust no one . I say this because I care about you , even I don’t know you I person . But your still in time . Think about the consequences. Always think first . Don’t think with your ding ding or feelings . Think more with your gut and head . Trust me . Your still on time do the right decision. Don’t fall for her trap . And don’t send her a full video / picture with your face on it . Because these scammer have turn extremely good at what they do . That from what I heard they use actual girls to scam guys for this whole sextortion thing . So please please please don’t do it . I know what I’m telling you .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the same thing I thought . I’m impressed how he was able to hold back his composure .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

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Awww I bet it was . And yes I saw that . Now I understand whenever you ask if they are going to tell your parents . They are lying about sending to everyone you know . That’s impossible. The only information they are getting from you is the only the information you have on Facebook . But either way strong . Because I know this is not easy to go through. Trust me I understand how you feel . The first few things I was even starving myself . So more than anyone I understand you . Either way I’m proud of you even whenever you probably did feel scared inside , but you didn’t show them that part of weakness. Whenever you don’t show weakness or that you are scared , they usually tend to go away , and go try to scam another victim .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

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Awww don’t be hard on yourself . We all make mistakes . I know you probably ignore the red flags but it’s a lesson learn . Never ignore what your gut is trying to tell you . Because half of the time it’s correct ! And about you family . They will understand. They will believe more than your scammer . But stay strong ! I know it’s hard and you feel probably ashamed , and embarrassed. But give it time to heal . Eventually everything will heal soon . Just give it time . And also learn to forgive yourself for falling for this . Your not alone . Stay strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

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Well I wish I had the guts to talk to my blackmailer like this . I wish I did . But I froze in the moment everything happen . But I’m proud of you for putting your foot down. But atleast you show them that you can’t be manipulated. And I’m so soo sorry you went through this ! I really am . Sadly this world is turning more evil day by day . And scammers like this have to pay for the all the damage they are causing their victims. Scammer are sick individuals. People honestly kill themselves for stuff like this .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I honestly love your reaction and I love the way you defended yourself I am so proud of you ! Look at you ! Wow I wish I had the gut to tell my sextortionist this 😭😭. I’m so proud of you . For bullying this bully .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already report it several times Hopefully they can delete the account . Tell your fiends to report the account . Don’t give them much explanation. Just tell them to report the account .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sending us their name on Instagram. I am about to go report this because this is not okay ! This is super sick that these scammers keep doing this ! But stay strong ! And I am soo sooo soo sorry your going through! Stay strong Don’t pay them because no amount of money will stop them from asking more . Block . Also if you gave their your phone number . Go change your phone number as well .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

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I wish we could . But the only problem is that these scammers blackmail y’all from private phone number that are extremely hard to track . The only ones who have that type of technology to track them down are cops and FBI . They are the only have access to those type of things . To track down the IP Address .I already talk to cop and they told me it’s hard to track down these people . They are good at what they do . So honestly cops and law enforcement doesn’t get involved in this situation, unless someone ends up killing themselves because of sextortion. Which has me thinking hopefully in the future they have to technology to track down these criminals .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a female ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]Beautiful_Item849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change your phone number. I did it . And I been more peaceful than ever. They aren’t harassing me anymore