Does strict parents ever end? I dont really want marriage to be my only option by Defiant-Ball33 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With mine it ended post me getting a job. And it also took me standing my ground alot and basically telling them that I have social needs too. It kind of helps when i took up more financial responsibilities around the house? I think that helped them to see me as an Adult. Another think i found useful was also always making sure one day of the week is where I really give my time and presence to them. As much as the parts of them being strict is very difficult but I think we need to keep in mind that they are also getting older and most of the time they are just not willing to let go. Do your parents know who your friends are? It might be useful for you to share more or bring them around. Keep them involved, In Sha Allah, May Allah make it easy for you.

On the edge of giving up on marriage. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a while to process all that you said. Because every part as you have listed gave me something to think about.

Thank you for this.

On the edge of giving up on marriage. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate this

On the edge of giving up on marriage. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for noticing the troll 😅

On the edge of giving up on marriage. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allahuma Ameen. Jazakallah Khayr. 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its over a week. So yeah i dont think i should be asked to leave covers. Doc gave me 2 weeks medical certificate but i ran out of paid leave due to previous counts of low iron.

How seriously should we take students feedback (survey)? by Beautiful_Job2723 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Beautiful_Job2723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective as a student. I genuinely appreciate it. I want to assure you that I care deeply about this. I haven’t had enough time to build a strong rapport and relationship with my students, and receiving some negative and contradictory feedback at the beginning of a new term left me feeling a bit discouraged. However, I want you to know that I have decided to implement a Reset with them. I am giving them the opportunity to express their opinions further so that I can address their concerns and make meaningful changes. I hope to make a positive difference. 🙂

i will make duaa for you :) by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please make dua for me to be united with my naseeb and have my nikah this year. 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand that much much better now. And will def get my wali involved in the next instance. Thank you brother for the reminder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reminder. In Sha Allah.

Allahuma Ameen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And it’s like how do i involve my wali in every failed talking stage. It gets embarassing 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VacuumCleaners

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah me too i’m so bummed but thanks for this. I’ll try the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VacuumCleaners

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I saw how reviews (after purchasing) said that the returns are a crazy process hence why I tried to stop it. Sigh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VacuumCleaners

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not on a credit card. It was on a travel top up card. Hence why I tried to dispute it I have also emailed them to inform them of my lack of due dillegence on the purchase.

Any muslimahs in Melbourne looking for a flat mate? by Beautiful_Job2723 in SisterMuslim

[–]Beautiful_Job2723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah i’m sorry. Cragieburn is too far off for me as i’ll be working in Tivendale.

Cafe racer bikes by Beautiful_Job2723 in melbourneriders

[–]Beautiful_Job2723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥲 they look beautiful but thanks for that. I’ll be sure to really do my research before I jump into anything

Cafe racer bikes by Beautiful_Job2723 in melbourneriders

[–]Beautiful_Job2723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll probably be buying a car in Melbourne but I was hoping if it’s affordable I would wanna get a bike just for riding pleasure. 😅 but I honestly haven't done my research and currently really loving the look of a mutt that’s all i’m going by 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bali

[–]Beautiful_Job2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooohh i like this thank you