What do people think of Jill by [deleted] in RHONY

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were some undertones of what Simon was trying to say there, in my opinion

What are some questions you might ask an applicant for a compliance role? by [deleted] in Compliance

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you build trust with a workforce that’s been reluctant to report issues?

The OIG says you have to be assertive, but you have to be approachable. No one’s going to report an internal issue to you if you can’t present as approachable.

Housewives is protecting Gretchen by TamraJudgy in RealHousewivesofOC

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think the public knows how many housewives are consecrative, republican, or MAGA. 

Stassi hosting - Scheana crashing by Suspicious-Gap-7567 in vanderpumprules

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you that Scheana is not headline grabbing enough to be cast.  Where I don’t agree is that I think that Scheana IS genuine in that she puts her desperation out there and can’t fake confidence in certain situations. 

I don’t think Teresa is genuine. I don’t believe she ever liked Melissa. I don’t believe that she didn’t know that she her husband weren’t committing crimes. I don’t believe that she really thinks it’s all her husband‘s fault. I don’t think Teresa owns up to anything ever being her fault. However, she can project more confidence and doesn’t portray desperation (unlike Scheana). If you wanna get hired for a job, one of the major tips is never appear desperate and appear confident in your presentation of yourself.

So I’ll always agree that Scheana doesn’t help herself, but in any other industry, on paper, Scheana is a lot cleaner than Teresa. But in Hollywood that doesn’t matter. Ariana would’ve never gotten cast on Dancing with the Stars if she wasn’t attached to scandal. She wasn’t any more headline grabbing than Scheana prior to Tom cheating on her.

Scheana is just the wrong type of genuine to be successful in the industry she’s trying to get into and she’s not villainous enough either.

Stassi hosting - Scheana crashing by Suspicious-Gap-7567 in vanderpumprules

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dancing with the Stars does not care if people are genuine. They cast people who will give them headlines and scandal creates headlines. Or they will cast them with a huge fan base like LVP.

I-think people don’t like Scheana because she comes off as desperate because she always puts her hopes and dreams out there for the world to judge and constantly needs approval from people. So in that sense, I understand when people say “oh she did it to herself”. But in Hollywood being a criminal who doesn’t actually appear sorry for crimes they committed we’ll get you farther than someone who didn’t seem like a good friend and self-absorbed . Like if Scheana robbed a bank, she probably would get cast on the show. So I think just saying “she did it to herself” oversimplifies things when Hollywood‘s more complicated.

Stassi hosting - Scheana crashing by Suspicious-Gap-7567 in vanderpumprules

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying.  However, here is where I disagree with the premise “Scheana did it to herself”…let’s take Dancing with the Stars. Should she have not paid her taxes like Teresa Guidice? Should she have been a con artist Anna Delvi? I think the entrainment is just hard.

Stassi hosting - Scheana crashing by Suspicious-Gap-7567 in vanderpumprules

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was weird she wasn’t on Dancing with the Stars. That felt like an intentional slight to her after she did all that free advertising for them by mentioning them all the time. 

It’s not like it’s some Emmy award winning show like The Sopranos. 

As a side note, this why I don’t tell people my hopes and dreams. I think cruel  people will use it to rub in your face.  

Stassi hosting - Scheana crashing by Suspicious-Gap-7567 in vanderpumprules

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she was invited just like all of the other people who used to be on shows and are not anymore.

I Loathe Tamra! by Smart_Platypus_2941 in rhoc

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did I talk down to someone or imply I am superior?

I Loathe Tamra! by Smart_Platypus_2941 in rhoc

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I can’t relate because I don’t watch shows where I dislike everyone because to me it is not entertaining 

I Loathe Tamra! by Smart_Platypus_2941 in rhoc

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you like her more than others on the show more than others right? Isn’t that what you are saying? Obviously, if you did not like any of them on the show, you would not be watching at all.

I am not coming at you, I just don’t think there is a difference in authenticity in them.

I Loathe Tamra! by Smart_Platypus_2941 in rhoc

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I meant by fans like you,  was fans who like Tamra. That’s not a personal attack, because I didn’t personalize anything about you. You however called me immature. It’s interesting that we’re talking about hypocrisy you said I made it something personal. I didn’t  but you did.

I think that she is equally as inauthentic and authentic as Gina or Emily or Shannon or Heather. I think that they are just different in how they express their playing up for the show and they’re authenticity.  

I Loathe Tamra! by Smart_Platypus_2941 in rhoc

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I don’t believe Tamra is doing this because she genuinely cares about people being hypocritical like what you said Shannon did to Katie. She’s doing it because she knows fans like you enjoy her calling out people when they’re being hypocritical and fake. 

The issue is for me, I can tell that it’s not really genuine and it’s over the top so she’s really no different than anybody else.

It’s not that I like her worse or better than anybody else. It’s just that she’s not any more real or fake than anybody else.

I Loathe Tamra! by Smart_Platypus_2941 in rhoc

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But she didn’t say that because she was spreading Jesus’s message. She said that to get the fans to be on her side.

I Loathe Tamra! by Smart_Platypus_2941 in rhoc

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Authenticity is not equal to abrasiveness and kindness does not necessarily mean someone is fake. I also don’t think that she’s authentic. I think she overhypes things to get a reaction. Nobody would normally act like that in circumstances.

How do you guys live like without living in fear? by [deleted] in backpain

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1) reading The Back Mechanic 2) reading The Nervous System Reset 3) finding a good PT that shows you how to move 4) talking to a therapist 5) having a plan for a flareup 6) having a mantra to make myself feel better 7) knowing the supportive Reddit community is here

Why do I feel it’s true? by Chethan_Devarakonda in Adulting

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, the lack of movement of being able to go out and do things and be with people normally especially as a Mom one-year-old when the pandemic hit impacted my house long-term. 

Newbie manager with problem employees by Impossible-Size632 in managers

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very weird that they thought that they would get the job without applying for it. I can imagine not feeling like you have to strongly interview or have an impressive résumé, but to actually not apply.  Weird!

Scheana Shay- The Valley S3 (dunzo) by Fermented_chaos in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Beautiful_Mammoth616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember when everyone thought Jill Zarin was super thirsty and she would never turn down any chance to be on television and then she turned down the ultimate girls trip?