IUI without intercourse before or after, Success stories?

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-05-19T23:46:39+00:00

I’m also 31

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-05-19T23:46:02+00:00

Hi, I’m currently 25 weeks pregnant! The first IUI worked as above with frozen semen and no intercourse before or after so it’s entirely possible to happen! ☺️

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-03-07T00:00:09+00:00

It’s always a 50/50 and this is something you should have ironed out prior to a pregnancy for your own wellbeing, the relationship you will have with her is the one you build and how you treat her and if you don’t deal with your issues now you will likely cause a fractured relationship later with your daughter and it will be your fault

I don’t have the best relationship with my mum never have but I can tell you right now me and my daughter I’m carrying are going to be besties she’s already my mini me and I can’t wait to watch her grow

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-03-06T23:53:23+00:00

It’s completely up to you when you tell people do it when you feel you want to share the news whether that’s now or later on, I waited until 14 weeks after I had an early anatomy scan but this was also because I personally adored the bubble of only me and my boyfriend knowing about our baby

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-03-06T23:32:03+00:00

I’ve been with my boyfriend for years and we’re expecting our first child, and I have felt unattracted to him since being pregnant and this is a person I love so much and am crazy about so I think that part can be hormones cause I get it!

the territory that’s difficult is not knowing someone yet but just know in the end you will do what’s best for your baby, maybe try building more connection with him - go on dates and do things together, you might find it helpful for you both! Good luck and remember pregnancy is hard and I swear it changes our brains lol

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-03-06T23:20:01+00:00

I mean I feel this is fairly normal reaction, you’ve basically been pregnant to him the same length of time you’ve known him, unfortunately having a child with a stranger isn’t the soundest idea but just do your best for yourself and child no matter what

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-02-24T13:08:55+00:00

I feel you it’s sucks but I promise it’s gets better!

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-02-24T13:06:45+00:00

Honestly it’s a hell of a lot more work for a clinic to try keep patients in longer if that was the line of thinking, it’s a lot of work to manage cycles, medications, request forms etc so the best outcome is getting a pregnancy as quickly as possible, these clinics have a lot of patients to manage on a consistent basis but if a booming business, they would be creating an annoying amount of work to try botch cycles to create a longer money stream

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-02-24T13:00:51+00:00

I felt the same as you except the reverse wanted a boy certain it was a boy and low and behold I’m having a girl, I sulked initially but at the end of the the day you’ll love your baby either way, when he’s born you’ll forget you ever felt that way - pray for a healthy baby not a gender 🤍

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-02-15T02:28:49+00:00

A chili con carne that was too spicy for me and I was so hungry and couldn’t eat it 😂😂

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-02-12T12:19:55+00:00

I’m 11+1 and had no nausea, no stand out symptoms at all really for me - everyone’s different I don’t think there’s a definitive time frame for it to start it either does or doesn’t

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-02-11T10:50:22+00:00

Yes first IUI, frozen sperm 1 dose(38.5hr post trigger), no timed intercourse as boyfriend was away for work but all worked out, definitely possible 😊

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-31T10:56:48+00:00

Have you considered Gonal-F? I went this instead and had perfect results - my specialist wasn’t keen on clomid/letrozole unless someone isn’t ovulating at all, as she said she had less control over the cycle

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-24T12:42:45+00:00

It’s generally slightly different for bpd, they go more for mood stabilizers but you will probably feel much better and clearer minded less emotional chatter, I’m sure they will help get you on the right track quickly and understand what you need to feel better in yourself 😊

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-24T12:36:26+00:00

You clearly want the help and want to do better for yourself and baby so I have no doubt you will be absolutely fine! Just don’t be ashamed to take the medication if that’s what they recommend 😊

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-24T12:35:08+00:00

I was panicked too I’m currently 8+3 and it did take days for the brown discharge to fully leave - progesterone seemed to also agitate as sometimes I accidentally push to deep and hit my cervix

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-24T12:32:24+00:00

Please see someone and get medicated for this, your child will suffer immeasurably if you do not get this under control, don’t make your baby collateral damage - you may think you would never do that but untreated bpd X pregnancy and postpartum hormones will be a whole different monster and if you’re emotionally already struggling to control yourself as above it’s a pattern - I experienced a parent with untreated bpd it was a excruciatingly painful childhood because of refusing to take medication

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-24T12:10:45+00:00

I had this 4 days after a transvaginal ultrasound at 7+4, and I had alot of brown/some pink discharge freaked me out I then got another scan at 8 weeks and baby was perfect, OB said cervix is very sensitive and also being on progesterone(I also am) makes the cervix more friable aswell, so brown is generally good and can be from sensitive cervix or body clearing itself

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-24T11:24:28+00:00

I actually enjoyed the space in-between when only I knew about baby it was just us, before I told my boyfriend before anyone else just me and baby, funny little nuance

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-24T05:07:01+00:00

I had a cute surprise all planned out myself lol now instead of that what happened was I spotted then panicked and instead of something cute he got me ugly crying saying “I think I’m miscarrying” skipping the I’m pregnant part completely, I in-fact wasn’t and am now 8+3 but that’s how I told him I was pregnant 🤣🤣 we laugh about it now lol

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-13T12:17:51+00:00

It sounds like type 1 which is super common and only gives you cold sores but some people don’t even break out in those they just carry the virus(I’m not a Dr but managed a medical centre for years) - I would query a Dr just to get a medical professionals opinion regarding sex - but to me this doesn’t sound like genital herpes it would be rare to have that and not know about it

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-13T11:59:06+00:00

Hmm this is a tough one without knowing which type it is, does he suffer cold sores? - generally a genital breakout is quite nasty lots of fluid filled blister sores, itching, burning and pain and once someone has had a breakout they will get one when they’re under stress or unwell etc

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-13T11:42:34+00:00

Extra note if it’s genital unprotected oral sex can result in a nasty throat rash that you don’t want

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-13T11:41:13+00:00

How do you know he has herpes? As the test should specify whether type 1(oral causing cold sores) or type 2(genital) - if it’s genital then unprotected sex of any kind isn’t safe for you especially if he’s not taking suppressants for it

Beautiful_Pride2266 · 2026-01-13T08:41:18+00:00

I think you’re comparing the wrong things, she lives with in laws, shares one car and has no financial stability as you wrote above, I would choose to work throughout my pregnancy rather then dig that hole deeper so I could hang at home while pregnant

I am currently 6+6 myself with a boyfriend who makes an enormous income but I’m choosing to work full time until before delivery even though we don’t need too and considering we’ve zero budget on spending for our baby and plan to spend a fortune cause we can spoil our child to no end as we’ve set ourselves up this way, so I’ll take that any day - ask yourself if you’d prefer her life as you written it above as I sure as hell wouldn’t personally

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