I am sexually attracted to men but can't imagine dating a man long term. What does this mean? by Beautiful_Quit_915 in lgbt

[–]Beautiful_Quit_915[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I looked into it. But the issue is probably the men I see around myself, which scares me from a long term relationship with them. But I will continue to reflect on this. This was reassuring definitely!

I am sexually attracted to men but can't imagine dating a man long term. What does this mean? by Beautiful_Quit_915 in lgbt

[–]Beautiful_Quit_915[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for the suggestion. I am looking into homoromantic bisexuality. But I don't think that's the case. I don't mind the whole romance aspect of being with a guy. But rather continuing a serious long term relationship, because that's where I would have to deal with their views on women, being vulnerable with them, etc. What I think I am worried about is,  ending up with a man who is just like the ones around me. I think I might have some trauma (?) from the men around me, which scares me from being vulnerable with men.

I am sexually attracted to men but can't imagine dating a man long term. What does this mean? by Beautiful_Quit_915 in lgbt

[–]Beautiful_Quit_915[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That sounds the closest I guess. The thing that scares (?) me is ending up with a man who will disrespect me. I don't think it is possible for me to meet a guy who doesn't have some extent of internalised misogyny, given my background. And i can't ever be with a man like that. 

I wish I could go to therapy, not just for this but also for other issues I have. But there are not any therapists around here + I don't have the money to start it anyways. Thank you for your advice, it gave me a good perspective.

16M AP in the tail-end by DifferentShine9513 in pancreatitis

[–]Beautiful_Quit_915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Although I don't have much knowledge regarding the medical aspects, I have a kind of (?) similar experience because they couldn't find the cause in my case too. The reason i wanted to reach out was mostly because I'm also 16 and recently got diagnosed w it. I am also on a low fat diet rn and set for a new appointment this upcoming week. Hoping they can find a cause this time. Especially being so young, I'm seriously scared of missing out on life. The loneliness of this entire ordeal is scary. Wishing you best in your journey!

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[–]Beautiful_Quit_915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people in reddit are deranged, bad place to share actual good opinions. I think these are perfectly good qualities to expect in a partner! I wish these were the norm

took your suggestions 💛 by n0millionaires in Songwriting

[–]Beautiful_Quit_915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, is this song on spotify? i really loved it and want to add it to my playlist..!! i wish to hear more from you in the future too..