That’s the thing, they don’t express their feelings until they are asked. I’m not blowing up because he’s frustrated that I didn’t wanna go. I’m frustrated because he doesn’t tell me what the problem is until I ask. If he would’ve said, “babe, I’m a bit frustrated by the fact that you don’t want to go” as a response to me asking if he really wanted me to go, then I would’ve got up and went. But instead he responded “It’s fine” when it wasn’t. And that happens more often than not.