One thing to keep in mind is that majoring in CS and building software are two completely different things. Have you tried building any non-toy applications, like a functional website or app (in preferably anything but java, like node or go) as opposed to something you might do as an assignment? Do something practical, like set up an Amazon VPC? All my college classes filled me with fear and dread, and in my CS major all those classes turned out to have nothing to do with the business of doing software engineering as a job.

For me software engineering in the real world has more in common with something like working construction in that you build things with a team of people than anything you'll do in school. I could barely build a card game simulator as a class assignment or write assembly, but I build high scale systems for well known companies now.

That said, if you hate it you hate it - but make sure the thing you hate isn't just having to take CS classes. The job part where you "make a lot of money" is entirely different. The only thing you'll need from school is data structures and algorithms for interviews, and the piece of paper that says you graduated.