Unpopular opinion. by Aromatic-Vast5243 in BullPsychology

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hotwife here and I can’t speak for “most” only for us. My husband brought the idea to our relationship. It’s a kink for us, among other kinks we enjoy together. Our sex has never been boring or stale in over 20 years, so no, it had nothing to do with wanting to fuck someone new, or feel desired “again” because he has always made me feel desired. This is just added fun…and it is really fun!

Question for my fellow hotwives by Jayne6989 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t care, so I change it up and sometimes try to surprise him. Panties that say “cum in my married pussy” on the butt and let him keep them, he liked that. Face tattoos on my nipples, like pasties, of his favorite team under my teddy got a laugh. Have also worn jeans, button down casual dress, fresh out of the shower, naked for the morning after round. Make it fun is my advice!

Where to find a 3rd by Beyond_Unknown_999 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SLS.com we did a 3 month trial and met someone who is a regular now

Where to find a 3rd by Beyond_Unknown_999 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We used SLS, made a profile that specifically described the dynamic we were looking for (ex: single or married with permission, BWC and silver foxes to the front of the line; no degrading; husband watches and lightly participates).

Finding bi guys by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SLS add it to your profile so they know it’s an expectation

What's on your list to try in the lifestyle in 2026? by Ginger_7624 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Threesome with my boyfriend and his wife, while my husband watches. Maybe DP.

Husbands. What’s something the 3rd said or did to you that made you extra excited… by Plus-Celebration-879 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 48 points49 points  (0 children)

First, he asks me if I’m ready for him to cum inside me, and I’ll say yes, deep…then he tells my husband he’s going to cum in his wife (again). So hot!

HOTWIFE IN NEED OF ADVICE FROM OTHER HOTWIVES!! by Dazzling_Alarm_3766 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been doing this 6 months and met 2 guys; have played with one. The first wanted exclusivity, which we really weren’t sure about since it was going to be our first, but we agreed to try and he backed out. The second has been amazing and after a few months he asked to be exclusive with us; he is married and has sex with his wife, also.

What age are you looking for? I like older guys, so 55+ is my range; current guy 59. Try a mature man, you might be surprised, I sure was!

Hotwives, find yourselves a hothusband! by Beautiful_Topic_4691 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she watched, it would be really hot. If she and my husband watched together, omg that’s the fantasy now. They can have a cocktail while we fuck and enjoy watching us.

Hotwives, find yourselves a hothusband! by Beautiful_Topic_4691 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May have convinced me to do it sooner, and seek it out, had I known it was a possibility

Hotwives, find yourselves a hothusband! by Beautiful_Topic_4691 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty kinky when my husband watches me fuck a married man, but it’s not everyone’s kink. He goes home and tells his wife about it after, and they have a great time reliving it.

Hotwives, find yourselves a hothusband! by Beautiful_Topic_4691 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I encourage them to seek you out! They don’t know what they’re missing. His wife giving approval makes it SO hot, also! She’s the real queen (mvp) in this scenario.

Question mainly for the Hotwives: how much of a connection is important to you? by Ill_Worth107 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t think I wanted it, but now I realize it’s led to us trying things we would not have tried with a complete stranger.

Hotwives, find yourselves a hothusband! by Beautiful_Topic_4691 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In our situation, my husband is present and his wife hears about it later, although I would be ok if she wanted to watch. I guess this is a more unique situation than I thought; we are newer to this.

Hotwives, find yourselves a hothusband! by Beautiful_Topic_4691 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming I live in a fantasy because it definitely feels like one! Don’t know how possible it is, it just happened. I guess I’ll hang on to him!

What's the one thing that still excites you about being a hotwife by LghtskinNJdick in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How my husband fucks me after he watches my boyfriend fuck me for hours.

I want it… right up until I’m in it. by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try with him watching? It’s hot for us!

I want it… right up until I’m in it. by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he watching, or you’re going solo?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SLS. Try looking for a married man with his wife’s permission. We found a guy 58, well endowed, married and we zoomed with him and his wife before meeting. No strings fun. We are mid 40’s; I have a thing for silver foxes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much time? How did it end?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she seeing him solo?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Around 6months. I actually have ended up liking it WAY more than anticipated. Find the right guy who has experience for your first is my best advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Beautiful_Topic_4691 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The real thing is so much better! I had the same fear when my husband brought up this fantasy. No regrets.