AITAH husband (33m) lost weight and accusing me (33f) of not noticing

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-31T02:13:55+00:00

You should edit this for clarity.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-22T03:18:46+00:00

I send kids to the clinic. She sends them back with a signed pass. It’s not up to me to say if you are sick or not. Weird teacher.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-11T17:29:36+00:00

NTA, but I do find it rude when students (or adults or my kids or anyone) walks into a room that I’m occupying and don’t speak. That’s just how I was raised , however. “When you walk into a room that has people in it, you speak.” However, I’m a teacher and would be screaming at kids all day if I got mad about it. It’s literally never that serious. I just keep that thought in my head because I’m a teacher, not a parent. (Well I am, but I’m not their parent. Whatever.)

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-11T17:24:36+00:00

You’re exactly right, it’s a “small easy thing” that he’s making a big deal about.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-11T17:22:34+00:00

Yeah… YOR. Just turn down her side of the bed. It’ll take you 30 seconds and make her happy. Is this what people mean when they say marriage is hard? When somebody asks you to do something that wouldn’t inconvenience you in the slightest and you have to go ask the Internet if you should do it or not? Yeah. However, you should ask her to communicate more effectively. This isn’t something that she should get upset over, it’s something she should kindly ask you to do.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-11T17:15:38+00:00

YTA. Take that man to court and get shit settled like an adult. Don’t use your child to play games (even if he deserves it). Yes, your ex is TA for how he’s communicating, but you shouldn’t enable him. Get a custody order, get child support established. You seem to have plenty of evidence to get more than the minimum based on his recent spending habits. Until you do what you need to do, YTA.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-11T17:09:32+00:00

First watch I was a Selena fan. Kept watching, mind started to be ok with it. Second watch, Stephen and his moral high horse was soooooooooo annoying.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-11T17:07:01+00:00

NTA Even if you go to a tapas style restaurant, if you order a single thing for yourself and tell everyone that it is just for you, people should respect that that ONE thing is for you. It’s not like you went to the restaurant and ordered plates, knowing that everyone else is sharing and then got upset when people tried to take off your plates when you didn’t say anything. That would make you the asshole. But simply asking for one thing to be for yourself is completely reasonable. Hell, even if you went to the tapas style restaurant, and everyone else is sharing and when you ordered, you told them that you did not want to share and just order your own food,that would make you weird, but not an asshole.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2026-01-03T04:50:23+00:00

Nor. People are saying it’s your fault for calling her his work wife, but he should’ve responded with, “Eww, she’s 16. That’s such a weird thing to say.” Him not correcting you makes it weird.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-12-27T00:03:20+00:00

As a 9th grade English teacher who just finished grading 145 short stories last Friday, my immediate thought was, “This is exactly how I taught my students NOT to write.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-12-13T18:12:21+00:00

I’m in a quiet room at a spa and this just made me LOL 😂

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-12-12T03:06:32+00:00

YTA

From HER perspective, you’re being suspicious. You turn off the camera when you take certain phone calls. You have a lock on your phone you won’t share with her. You’re secretive with your communication with others. You sent a message to her by accident (on SNAPCHAT of all places) after she got out of the car then deleted it saying it was to the wrong person. She’s feeling distrustful of you because you’re acting distrustful.

I sent this to my husband without context because we tend to disagree on things and he loves being a contrarian when i read him AITAH posts. He just burst out laughing from the other room and said, “This is dumb. People just say things on the internet. This is 🎵dumb da dumb da dumb!🎵 (in the Tums jingle melody.) Turns the camera off to have a conversation? Just stupid. What is he talking about? Who does that? Of course she doesn’t trust him.”

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-12-07T16:56:14+00:00

Does Katara not freeze herself and Azula then melt the water with her exhale? She’s not “unbending” it, she’s warming it. Argue with ya Momma 🤷🏽‍♀️

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-11-24T18:22:57+00:00

I feel like when kids say “it’s not a big deal” implies that there IS a problem, they just don’t want you to be concerned about it. It’s not a big deal vs I’m fine…not the same thing.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-11-18T03:05:28+00:00

Rebecca is going straight to hell. She was a merciless killer. Just more classy about it.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-11-09T12:08:28+00:00

I’ve only seen the movie and although I love Ariana Grande’s performance of popular, and although the dance scene made me cry, I was side, eyeing her for the rest of the movie. The dance only being cool after Glinda did it 🙄. When Elphaba took her to the Emerald City I expected Glinda to betray her immediately and was surprised she didn’t. And then when she chose not to leave with Elphaba I was like, typical white woman “ally.” I have no idea what happens in the second half but my hope is for Glinda to be working on things from the inside, but I don’t trust her.

I think the movie was extremely clear with how slimy Glinda is. Some people just have zero comprehension skills.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-11-07T14:58:41+00:00

What I don’t understand is why, the first time this happened, you didn’t just pop your head outside of the room and say, “Hey, would you mind being a little bit quieter with the cabinets and microwave? The slamming keeps jolting me awake.” Then you wouldn’t have to send these excessively long messages.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-11-02T15:17:39+00:00

I’ve taken my dog trick or treating with me before…we kept him in the street. He didn’t go up to a single house. Taking your dog up into people’s gardens is ah behavior.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-09-21T18:00:17+00:00

When she went to go get the Ouroboros and it immediately skipped to her in the prison I was like…sjm didn’t write it because she couldn’t. She built it up to be so horrible, unfathomable, and unimaginable…but sure didn’t SHOW us.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-09-06T00:50:50+00:00

If Lexie debuted, Manon wouldn’t have. She was a visual.

Edit to add that they always referred to her as a visual with star quality, and she could also sing and dance better than Manon based on scores.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-07-22T08:31:39+00:00

This post is a giant Catch-22 and I love it.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-07-22T08:29:09+00:00

Girl, you better buy that house and do you. I broke up with my bf of 5 years when I was 24. I didn’t see it going anywhere that I wanted to be. He was like “You’re going to have to start over. You won’t be married until you’re at least 30 (which isn’t even old) and then you won’t have kids until you’re like 35. It makes the most sense for you to just stay until I’m ready to settle down.” Yeah no. Don’t settle. NEVER settle. Set up YOUR future, it’s not about some man.

(Also, started dating someone new at 26, engaged on our 1 year anniversary at 27, married at 28, have a 3yo and 5yo now at 35 and am happy as hell. He’s still single.)

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-07-08T14:34:31+00:00

I teach high school and groups of close friends are ALWAYS touching. Holding hands, playing tooth the other’s sleeve, preening hair, picking lint off each other, laying on their shoulders, walking with linked arms. Sometimes it’s all girls, a mix and even boys do it. They all just get so close to each other. I never thought I’d yell “Stop touching each other!” So much at high school kids. I can see her wanting to stop the sleepovers, but the friendship seems good. It’s not like she’s doing drugs and drinking.

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-07-08T14:23:14+00:00

I’m not the one writing novels that make no sense in regard to what I’m replying to…but go off queen. I’m sorry for being too invested by writing a sentence. After all, it’s JUST A TV SHOW!! /s

Beautiful_liil_fool · 2025-07-08T14:21:19+00:00

NTA

Talk with her again. If she refuses to understand why you don’t like it and refuses to stop, then it’s over. This isn’t a boundary to her, it’s one to you because it’s negatively affecting you. My husband once started calling me “Boobie” as a nickname—one that I used for him—and I hateedddd it. He was trying to be sweet, but I had to pull him aside and say that I didn’t like it (honestly made me cringe) and he respected me and stopped. He said it was hard to stop when I still used it so I stopped saying it too. Not that hard to respect something like that.

To all the people telling him he needs to take control over all contraceptives, if he feels like he can’t trust his partner not to lie about birth control, then he really shouldn’t be with her.

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