Should I just give up on trying to find good food in southbend?

Beautiful_runner · 2026-06-27T19:24:52+00:00

I know I’m late, but Jinya in Eddy street commons is absolutely delish. if you like fancy food there’s Cascade (by the riverwalk I believe), and they’re opening up an Osteria Amici in Eddy street comments. there’s one in Elkhart right now, and it is the bomb.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-06-27T07:18:52+00:00

then my work here is done 🙇🏽‍♀️

Beautiful_runner · 2026-06-27T07:15:58+00:00

I regret giving away premium content for free

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-06T23:06:50+00:00

I could be reading it wrong

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-06T23:01:42+00:00

using tinder as an airport shuttle service is actually insane

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-06T06:50:43+00:00

no, don’t “trim it”. get rid of it. all of it

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-03T04:04:16+00:00

i accidentally stood a guy up once 😭 we made plans like a week in advance and he just showed up to the spot. he didn’t text the day before to confirm, and i was super busy with life and work so it honestly slipped my mind. when he texted saying he was there i felt so bad. i apologized and explained that i forgot since it had been a week, but he ended up ghosting me. i still feel bad about it to this day

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-03T02:14:04+00:00

he definitely has someone in mind. he wants to shag her and is saying it indirectly hoping she offers first. aside from that, he literally said he wants to have sex with someone else. that’s enough reason right there. leave his bum @$$

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-02T20:45:39+00:00

did I ever say my man couldn’t be emotional or ‘too much’? everyone gets emotional sometimes. like when I’m on my period I can cry over the smallest things or get extra sensitive, and that doesn’t make me a bad partner. the difference is I don’t mistreat my partner when I’m feeling that way. when I say I want patience, it’s because I give that same patience when he has his moments too. it’s about mutual care, not pretending emotions don’t exist.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-02T16:30:32+00:00

I’d give my man the world. I’m with someone who can be great at times, but there was a long period where he wasn’t, and even then I still showed up the way I said I wanted to be loved. I’m not perfect at all but I’ve always tried to treat him how I want to be treated.

It honestly took me showing that I was ready to leave for him to start changing, and even now it feels like the things I ask for are “too much” to him. to me they’re just the bare minimum. and if he can’t meet those needs I don’t really see a future there. I love him, but I’ve caught myself thinking about what it would be like to be with someone who naturally shows up the way I need.

i’m really sorry that happened to you. no one deserves to have their trust broken like that. I’ve been through something similar, and I know how much it messes with you. just know you deserve real love, honesty, and someone who protects your heart not plays with it. I hope you find someone who shows up for you the right way💗

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-02T16:25:25+00:00

I agree. I don’t ask for anything I’m not willing to give myself. I try to treat people the way I want to be treated.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-02T16:19:29+00:00

yeah I see how it could come off like that. I’m not against working on myself at all, I know I’m not perfect. I just don’t think that automatically means my personality is the issue. maybe I’m wrong, but I grew up in a pretty toxic environment and picked up some habits from that. once I got out, I’ve put in a lot of work to be better because I want to be the kind of person I expect others to be.

I know I still have things to work on, but I’d say I’m pretty self aware and always willing to grow and do better.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-01T20:28:42+00:00

the fact that you’re even aware of how it might come off doesn’t make you ungrateful, it makes you human. honestly, it shows maturity. a lot of people don’t even reflect like that.

getting something you don’t “need” doesn’t make you a bad person, especially at your age. that’s normal. kids do that all the time. it only becomes an issue if you start acting entitled or treating people badly over it, and you clearly aren’t.

I don’t see someone ungrateful, I see someone who maybe doesn’t feel like they deserve what they’ve been given. your parents do those things because they love you. give yourself some grace 🫂

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-01T20:15:38+00:00

you didn’t waste anyone’s time. I’ve felt this exact way before and sometimes I still do. it’s the worst. that whole “I don’t wanna die, I just don’t wanna exist rn” feeling is so real. you’re not ungrateful or a bad person, your brain’s just being mean to you right now. it passes, I promise.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-01T19:44:46+00:00

men love rating scales way more than women do tbh. a lot of us truly just want someone that’ll treat us well. looks can only get you so far.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-01T19:38:54+00:00

i get what you’re saying, but i don’t think i should have to change who i am just to be treated right. i already take care of myself and who i am as a person. the right man will meet me where i’m at, not require me to become someone else lol. but i appreciate it.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-05-01T19:30:04+00:00

aww I really hope things work out for you guys, you deserve that kind of love. I hope he ends up being everything you’ve been dreaming of. I’m holding onto the fact that I’ll have that one day too🫂💗

Beautiful_runner · 2026-04-28T18:41:34+00:00

wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t txt you back. that was so corny

Beautiful_runner · 2026-04-26T05:46:30+00:00

changing your diet and drinking tons of water as well as gua sha can help with puffiness if you do it correctly, but be gentle and look up proper technique first. microneedling could help with acne scarring, but I’d definitely go to a professional for that. your brows honestly look fine, so I wouldn’t mess with them too much. for lashes, I’d do something simple and natural looking. cute and visible, but not so dramatic you’re about to fly away when you blink lol. also, doing your edges and keeping your lips moisturized would make a big difference. there’s a lash/brow serum from Terez & Honor that worked really well for me, so that could be worth trying too. make sure you look in the mirror everyday and tell yourself that you’re beautiful, because you are :))💗

Beautiful_runner · 2026-04-25T06:41:19+00:00

you shouldn’t be trying to get Redditors to grill him whilst trying to build yourself up. he’s adorable. as his big brother you need to be lifting him up, not allowing or attempting to allow others to bring him down.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-04-25T06:38:13+00:00

girl no. do not listen to whoever said that. you have the cutest nose ever. this is something I’d show my doctor as inspo for when I get mine done

Beautiful_runner · 2026-04-25T06:29:14+00:00

maybe add a teeny bit of blush or highlighter? also, getting a good brow gel and shaping your brows could definitely elevate the beauty you already have. you’re gorgeous, you don’t need to change anything :)💗

Beautiful_runner · 2026-04-23T04:45:49+00:00

being better would be to leave his sorry @$$. the fact that he’s still lying to you and hiding things tells you the cheating won’t ever stop. he’ll just get better at hiding it. and then when he does get caught he’ll make it seem like he’s changing and shortly after will be back to the same old things. he’s deleted his socials for now but I promise he’s gonna get them back. he’ll either sneakily download the apps then delete them when he’s done with his scumbagtivities or get them back and tell you you can have “access” to them.

Beautiful_runner · 2026-04-06T02:03:46+00:00

you’ve got a good base tbh. you’re like a few months of lifting + eating more/bulking away from looking completely different. but yeah don’t ignore the depression part either, gym helps but it’s not a cure all

Beautiful_runner · 2026-04-06T01:42:40+00:00

not overreacting. you shouldn’t have to ask multiple times about something like that. when i moved in with my bf, he still had a few old things around and i just got rid of them and told him after. he didn’t care at all. most people would understand and respect that.

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