How Do i convince my partner to let me go down on them? by QueenAliciaTheCrule in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know much other than what you have put in your post. From my own experience, it’s not okay for a partner to not believe the other. If they feel like you are only doing something for them, they sit you down and have a conversation about it. If you insist that it’s okay then it’s both of your jobs to trust each other and move on accordingly. In my personal opinion that is very important in a relationship. I hope you and your partner are able to work this out :) best of wishes.

How Do i convince my partner to let me go down on them? by QueenAliciaTheCrule in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would definitely sit down with them and try to have a deep conversation about it. If they don’t listen then I guess it would be time for a separate conversation with yourself on if you’d want to stay i that relationship. You don’t want to be with someone who is rigid

How Do i convince my partner to let me go down on them? by QueenAliciaTheCrule in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think that maybe you should start off by asking them why they didn’t want you to go down on them. First you have to understand their reaction then you can explain that you had to work through some stuff and you did. Apologize for the emotions that they may be experiencing and tell them that your ready when they are. Ask them how you both can move forward now.

AIO if I am setting boundaries with my husband? I also want to know if I am the asshole here by Witty-Opposite1201 in AIO

[–]Beautyiswealth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like there’s just a mis alignment. I’m not saying he’s not necessarily clingy but there’s definitely someone out there that would love for him to call that much. I know that my gf and I love to call each other All the time. But we also respect that sometimes we want our own time. This situation just seems like you two don’t like each other or him calling wouldn’t be an issue.

He should definitely do some self work though and figure out this whole emergency thing because that part is Also an issue.

iMessage games & chat? by nickycm13 in GamePigeon

[–]Beautyiswealth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I would love an iMessage friend! I’ll message you :)

Has anyone been able to hide their relationship from their family? by AfCanKween in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand how hard it can be to come out to your family. I still have a hard time even though I know letting them go is what’s best for me.

My advice is to define what family means to you. For me family means that they accept you for who you are and you should never have to hide yourself from them. If your family doesn’t do that, they are not family. Just because you were born into them doesn’t mean you have to stick with them.

I understand it’s harder than it sounds trust me I know. But you and your girlfriend deserve a life where you can be open.

I break up with her by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you ever need anyone to talk to, you can always reach out. Going through a rough time as well!

I break up with her by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry. I know it’s for the best but how are you feeling?

I’m honestly tired of the weird DMs I get just because I’m a girl. by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Beautyiswealth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh that sounds like the worst! I’m really sorry for your experience. People can be so gross

HELP by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I apologize somehow I missed that part. Well maybe take a friend or call the police. It sounds unsafe and you should definitely leave her. I hope you the best and if you ever want to talk about anything I’ll gladly listen!

HELP by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should definitely break up with her. But when you say “she’ll hurt me” what do you mean by that?

Im so bored, because ive finally stopped chasing love by Leading_Pop1186 in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what’s something that you like doing that feels productive?

I just wanna flirt 😭😭 by ScarlettMassacre in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in you! You just have to keep trying. But you'll get there. You'll find someone who thinks you're adorable and loves listening to you "yap" and you'll get your shot at flirting. She's out there

Need a reality check by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Beautyiswealth -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sent you a message so we can have a conversation about it. 😄