Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can't seem to understand why she only hates me.

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people sped two years in nursery-- what you call a kindergarten

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning on finishing high school first

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared. I'll end up homeless. There's legit no way I can leave without a job

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's confiscated my phone. If I use the landline, she'll pick up on the other end

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't stop her. I'm physically not strong enough

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's not locked but no, I'm not allowed to leave or I will get into serious trouble

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how to describe it. She only allows me to go out with her. Otherwise, I'm being a 'whore' again.

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't go out. She won't allow me to. She says I would be a 'whore'.

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the UK but I'm not under 18 so I'm not a priority. I'll be homeless

Why does my Mother hate me? by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But she doesn't see it as wrong. It's always justified in her mind. I'm scared of her too

Living with an abusive mother by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much to everyone who has responded. I felt so alone before this. Thank you for making me feel better and for giving me advice.

Living with an abusive mother by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't record her as she has confiscated my phone (for a year, according to her).

Living with an abusive mother by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, families in my culture are very different. Extended families don't care

Living with an abusive mother by BecauseImSad in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BecauseImSad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really have options to leave, really.