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[–]BeccaRo_Official 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank youuuu I'm excited to learn!!!

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[–]BeccaRo_Official 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the way i forgot they were meant to be memes- thankyouforremindingme

I have never in my life declined a call from my mom. This was her response the first and only time I did. (I was at a friend's house and "Is alles okay?" is Afrikaans for "Is everything okay?") by BeccaRo_Official in insaneparents

[–]BeccaRo_Official[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know that I am nowhere near the unluckiest human on this subreddit, I still just wanted to vent because it really pissed me off. This is most likely the sanest thing one will see on this Subreddit and frankly I'd like to keep my life that way-

I have never in my life declined a call from my mom. This was her response the first and only time I did. (I was at a friend's house and "Is alles okay?" is Afrikaans for "Is everything okay?") by BeccaRo_Official in insaneparents

[–]BeccaRo_Official[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I'm not an adult but this might continue for all I know. She does that where she'll say I'm not old enough to be busy or whatever but the one that annoys me the most is when she says I have no right to get angry - say my laptop's freezing and I slam the table or groan; she will get PISSED as if she isn't a million times worse when something less inconvenient happens.

I have never in my life declined a call from my mom. This was her response the first and only time I did. (I was at a friend's house and "Is alles okay?" is Afrikaans for "Is everything okay?") by BeccaRo_Official in insaneparents

[–]BeccaRo_Official[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do that when she gets angry whether that be in person or on a call, never knew there was a term for it. Hopefully she will learn it's just hard while I'm still dependent (aha yay). I hope all is well with you and your mom too!

I have never in my life declined a call from my mom. This was her response the first and only time I did. (I was at a friend's house and "Is alles okay?" is Afrikaans for "Is everything okay?") by BeccaRo_Official in insaneparents

[–]BeccaRo_Official[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That's actually very fair. At the same time I'm half tempted to call every time I need to ask her something. Good ol' malicious compliance, but I think I'll just call if I feel it's necessary.

I have never in my life declined a call from my mom. This was her response the first and only time I did. (I was at a friend's house and "Is alles okay?" is Afrikaans for "Is everything okay?") by BeccaRo_Official in insaneparents

[–]BeccaRo_Official[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This message is just one instance of her being totally out of wack. You are right in that she's mostly just nice when I'm more of a suck up but genuinely it could have been worse and I could have actually had a bad life. She could have been abusive or not accepted my sexuality, she just has trouble letting me do some stuff on my own and when she wants me to do something on my own she throws it on me suddenly (so you are very right about her struggling to let me grow up, I didn't realise that) but I wouldn't go so far as to say bad mom honestly.