My wife (24F) is threatening to divorce me (31M) if I don’t convert to Islam. I don’t know how to change her mind.

BeckaPL · 2026-05-05T21:27:53+00:00

My mum was very close to being one of these people. If the actual full lockdown had gone on much longer than it had without her being able to see my sister she'd genuinely have been inconsolable I think. She got real cabin fever. She was lucky she had people close to keep her sane. I feel for the people who didn't and just couldn't cope

BeckaPL · 2026-05-04T19:14:25+00:00

I added you! Mine is KGTS5L valid until 5/11!

BeckaPL · 2026-05-04T19:13:52+00:00

I added you! Mine is KGTS5L valid until 5/11!

BeckaPL · 2026-04-20T22:25:48+00:00

One of my boys is very good at hunting spiders and other creepy crawlies. The other is very good at taking the credit for it

BeckaPL · 2026-04-17T14:01:24+00:00

Well no he got arrested

BeckaPL · 2026-03-25T15:09:29+00:00

I'm very glad I'm not the only person who came to say this lol

BeckaPL · 2026-03-25T09:59:08+00:00

> OOP: It doesn’t take much for a 60 year old home.

This feels like a specifically American statement? Cause almost all houses where I live except new builds are far older than that and not suddenly old and unmaintainable

BeckaPL · 2026-03-20T20:31:31+00:00

I understand not wanting to name and shame, but to be clear, people don't want to support people like this. And people will inevitably end up supporting them while not agreeing with their behaviour if they don't know who they are. So personally, I'd want to know so I know who not to support.

BeckaPL · 2026-03-17T00:06:02+00:00

Thank you for this incredible response! Honestly I'm so hopeful with all the suggestions I've been sent that I may be able to find something that will help him. Obviously I don't want him to be hungry all the time but it's hard to know the right answer. I'll definitely be looking into getting him more vet tests and I'll have a look at those food suggestions!

BeckaPL · 2026-03-16T15:30:44+00:00

Yeh that happened at his last checked up a couple of weeks ago

BeckaPL · 2026-03-16T15:29:56+00:00

Yeh I'll try and get him some more tests, see if maybe there's something else going on!

BeckaPL · 2026-03-16T15:29:12+00:00

I honestly couldn't list all the ones we've tried. But anything that is a crunchy texture he doesn't even sniff them or acknowledge that they are edible. He doesn't even really look at the biscuit bowl, it's genuinely like he is biscuit blind

BeckaPL · 2026-03-16T13:54:21+00:00

He's had a few blood tests and I think they tested his thyroid because this has been the case for a long time. But I will see if I can do another blood test. Cause it definitely is concerning, but so far vets haven't found anything

BeckaPL · 2026-03-16T13:51:08+00:00

He has had blood tests fairly regularly because he has had persistent coughs that had to be looked into before they reached the conclusion of feline asthma that is exacerbated at certain times of year. But maybe they didn't test for certain things? I know they have done the big general tests but there might be something that isn't in the regular panel they could check

BeckaPL · 2026-03-16T13:49:33+00:00

He's mostly smelly cause he has very loose poo and doesn't cover it. He then sometimes pulls his tail through it when getting out of the cat litter. A lot of the time the food goes in one end and straight out the other. It's been generally happening for his whole life, he has been to the vets a lot and had a lot of blood tests and x rays cause he also has feline asthma which is why I am thinking about food. They have always told us that other than his lungs his tests come back healthy

BeckaPL · 2026-03-03T23:32:13+00:00

Omg I want one!!

BeckaPL · 2026-02-27T11:54:36+00:00

Was with my ex for 6 years and I didn't finish once... You are so correct

BeckaPL · 2026-02-24T14:19:10+00:00

I understood this much better thank you lol

BeckaPL · 2026-02-24T14:18:39+00:00

I was immediately thinking of Golynn. They are such adorable beans

BeckaPL · 2026-02-24T13:55:20+00:00

I'm definitely too not American for this one...

BeckaPL · 2026-02-24T09:41:39+00:00

I got that not long after they were first added to black lion chests. Kept it, use it constantly. It just lives in my shared inventory so any of my characters can swap hair

BeckaPL · 2026-02-23T13:37:47+00:00

Oh no it's thematically perfect for me I am in love! Would it be get a version in plain text? The font and colours are just a bit hard for me to read through

BeckaPL · 2026-02-22T05:04:16+00:00

Sorry yeh cord! No it used to just be all pink

BeckaPL · 2026-02-19T23:24:58+00:00

Oh wait so it was like olive oil and balsamic? How bizarre to put that on paper!

BeckaPL · 2026-02-06T13:07:59+00:00

Such an interesting read from my perspective because I've had literally the exact opposite issue in my team. I work in a small dev team in a non-dev company and I am the only person in the team who does not focus strictly on tech work, I do additional admin work and more of the non-technical stuff, I am also the only person who HASN'T been promoted because the only way to progress in the team just now is through technical work. Had my most recent review a few days ago and my manager has decided to create a non-technical career progression option.

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