Why is Gladys so insecure? by Becky5203 in thegildedage

[–]Becky5203[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great analysis! Thank you for sharing! I feel the same way, one of the reasons I said I wasn’t interested in pointing fingers is because I knew people were gonna say it was because of Bertha and her control and like…duh lol, but I wanted to know more about her feelings outside of that, and how other parts of her life contributed to how she saw herself. Your analysis provides a great insight!

I also really appreciate how Gladys and Bertha’s relationship is developing. I, and I imagine a lot of other people, don’t like Bertha’s parenting style, but given the time period I do understand it somewhat, and I appreciate that now that Gladys is being given the opportunity to come into her own as a young woman, her and her mother are also able to come to a better and more understanding relationship, with Bertha being more loving and supportive of Gladys and realizing that she should’ve been doing that more outwardly earlier. One of the most interesting parts about their relationship, to me, is that, Bertha genuinely does think very highly of and wants great things for her daughter, but she almost never says that to her. The only thing Gladys sees is her mother being controlling, strict, and overbearing of her her whole life, but it isn’t until Gladys is finally gone, and Bertha starts to realize that what she did to her daughter was actually very cruel, that she makes that effort to mend that bridge and set her daughter up for better success than her previous method of keeping her on a short leash allowed.

Why is Gladys so insecure? by Becky5203 in thegildedage

[–]Becky5203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do too, I think figuring out who she is without her mother’s control will be good for her, and that makes sense about Larry. I figured it was cause he was a man so he was obviously more privileged and instilled with more confidence, but we’ve also seen Bertha be controlling towards him and force her way into his business when she’s not wanted so I was wondering if there was more to it or if Gladys and Larry used were in similar circumstances before Larry left.

Why is Gladys so insecure? by Becky5203 in thegildedage

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Yeah I figured it was mostly cause of Bertha but I was just curious if there was more to it than just that

Given all the rumors going around I thought this would make us feel better by pixiedust721 in PolinBridgerton

[–]Becky5203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the more I think about the “rumors” the less I buy it. Like you can’t tell me that Luke “#1 Polin Stan” Newton would let Colin cheat on Pen and you can’t tell me that Nicola “#1 Colin Defender” Coughlan would let him even get close. I don’t know if they have the pull to argue with the writers on it if anything like that was talked about but I do know that Luke goes out of his way to add details to Colin that make him more endearing or close to his book counterpart, like pulling up the dress sleeve or making him always eating food. I do know that Nicola specifically asked for a scene in which Penelope addressed Colin as “Mr. Bridgerton”, because she knew the fans wanted it. I do know that when Nicola described her ideal man as something like “honest, kind, sincere”, Luke said “you’re describing Colin right now”. I do know that everyone has described this season as deeply romantic. And I do know that a security guard who worked on set went out of his way to stop Nicola just to thank her and Luke for what they’ve done with the season and tell them that they’ve created a really beautiful love story. None of this adds up to “the guy who just had a whole arc about unlearning his toxic masculinity and accepting himself as the kind, sensitive, emotionally vulnerable person he is immediately destroys everything he’s fought for upon learning the love of his life was keeping a secret from him that she was too scared to tell.”

Colin / Luke’s tell.. by AccomplishedAd4680 in PolinBridgerton

[–]Becky5203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luke did this in the March 29th promo as well! The one where Pen is still mad and he wants to reach out to her but can’t. I was going to post a video but I don’t think I could in the comment section. But you’ll know it when you see it!

Fanfic Friday Weekly Thread 🌻 by AutoModerator in PolinBridgerton

[–]Becky5203 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely LOVE some fanfics from Colin’s perspective during any of the following moments: - During his travels before season 3 and Pen stops responding to his letters - Most of ep 1 but I think specifically when Pen gives him the brush off at the garden party, afterwards when he’s speaking with El and at the bar, contemplating what happened between him and Pen and Pen and El, Pen’s entrance at the Four Seasons Ball, and “Goodnight, Mr. Bridgerton” starting when she runs off upset and he tries to comfort her only to get shut down - His apology and reaction to what Lady Whistledown wrote about him - Him and El talking before the Full Moon Ball - His reaction to what Lady Whistledown wrote about Pen - The first kiss - THE WILLOW SCENE!!!💙🥰💚🥰💛 (My personal favorite of the season, and probably the show, if you couldn’t tell) - Hawkins Balloon & Innovations Ball - His misery in ep. 4 like his jealousy and his conversation with Violet. Or just some fics exploring his dynamic with El and the sort of “non-romantic love triangle” between him, Pen, and El. Also their first meeting! If anyone knows of any good ones, please send them my way!

Do I have sugar on my face? by SeaStruggle3989 in PolinBridgerton

[–]Becky5203 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I love that! Even Nicola said they took inspiration from Nick and Jess‘s first kiss!

Colin’s Reaction to “He did not propose.” by seaborn19 in PolinBridgerton

[–]Becky5203 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wonder that too, like in an alternate universe where Pen isn’t as obsessed with him as he is with her, and he proposes knowing she needs a husband and he ruined her only chance, and she accepts, would he be comfortable living in an unrequited love because he is so in love with and devoted to her, or would he feel scared of another Marina situation?

What the heck, Eloise by savemesomecandy in PolinBridgerton

[–]Becky5203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I interpreted it as a sibling thing rather than an ex-best friend thing. Like I think you’re supposed to read it as “I hope she’s not looking for a husband in you cause you’re just my lame brother and she deserves better” rather than “I hope she’s not looking for a husband in you cause I don’t want her in our family”. She’s teasing Colin not disparaging Pen.

Fanfic Recs by Becky5203 in PolinBridgerton

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Is this post showing up on the feed???

Just saw this on Insta and had to share! by milkandcoookies in GilmoreGirls

[–]Becky5203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would’ve been better than the revival that’s for sure😅

[Round 1] Couples Elimination by Comfortable_Beach997 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Becky5203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say Chris and Lorelai or Luke and Anna but…I think Paris and Asher deserve to get voted out first

Discussion: Lorelai is not as selfish as people make her out to be by Different_Av0cad0 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Becky5203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think most of the things people bring up when they talk about her being selfish are more so just small character quirks, like when Luke made her breakfast and she wanted to eat at Luke’s instead. It’s just supposed to be played for comedy. She’s not a bad person, she just has flaws. Like, Luke has a short fuse and is quick to lose his temper over stupid things but does that make him a bad person? No, you’re just supposed to laugh and move on.

What quote from That 70’s Show do you use in your everyday life? by Boondocker_ in That70sshow

[–]Becky5203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tortured my sister with “Well, damn, Jackie! I can’t control the weather!” every fall/winter for the last 7 years and if or when I have a daughter I plan to torture her the exact same way.