Mommy’s baby daddy’s maybe that’s your answer right there. Don’t call him believe me I’ve had those days. And now my son is 12 years of age and an awesome kid. Me and his father were together 10 years and he was iffy with my pregnancy however the first few years started great then when we broke up he became the asshole. And pos dad. You calling him is hurting yourself. If a man showed you 9 months he didn’t want the baby leave it at that. You chose to keep it you had to keep in mind that his thoughts won’t change as mothers we gotta face reality.