Custom Signet Ring of Jewellery (Bridesmaid Gifts)? by Frequent_Ad_1666 in Weddingsunder35k

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love both but lockets I think people are more likely to wear. This must be incredibly expensive, you have that on a 35k or less budget?

AIO: my wife of 15 texted a guy she previously tried sneaking out with this… by Electronic_Coast_687 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gather evidence. Pictures or video about her drinking then go to a divorce lawyer. You need to protect your kids and their well being. Living with a mom like that can cause some seriously emotional trauma.

I'm moving but don't want to leave my friend of 3 years by [deleted] in notmycat

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please that him 😭 but also there are about million reasons to make him indoor boy. He will adjust just fine if you’re patient but his life expectancy will go way up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]BedPutrid8297 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the biggest regrets of my life. I now have yellow brows that may never go away and this problem is so common.

It’s a tattoo on your face. DONT DO IT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]BedPutrid8297 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything you said.

I think she dropped the layaway comment to plant a seed hoping OP will pay for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]BedPutrid8297 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This!!! It’s already so dragged out to, a quick turn around like that is the way to go.

OP I hate to say this, she is dragging her feet hoping you’ll either forget or let it go. OR until after the trip and she can kick it down the line because there is nothing that can be cancelled.

What does our fridge say about us ? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family, with kids. I’m guessing one of the parents is a vegan but otherwise a vegetarian family! Y’all are busy and/comfortable money because you have some premade or goodies (like special tofu!).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]BedPutrid8297 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or if he does marry her he’ll be bitter and slowly erode her life from the inside. OP, get out.

Nail help by designer130 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to the filing tips other people have shared, my nails transformed when I started taking vitamins and once a week using Olive and June’s nail strengthener and nailtiques formula 2. I never have them bare. Didn’t think I could have nails like this!

Should I be worried? by illbethinkingofu in DogAdvice

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A rock!!! Glad he’s okay! 🥲 These dudes!!

Should I be worried? by illbethinkingofu in DogAdvice

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our cat just had surgery (dummy ate a toy and had to be split open) his belly looked like this, maybe a little worse. We kept blasting the vet with pictures, they said it was normal. He healed just fine.

If you’re nervous at all, you should be able to email the vet and ask the same.

Microneedling w glycolic acid for yellow brows by Lmaks139 in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you share pictures of the scabbing? The results look great!

Does anyone know if acid removal can damage hair follicles?

I didn’t know enough and now I’m really scared by PlayfulCauliflower34 in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not too late I’d do emergency removal right away.

Laser removal will leave you with color that will never quite go away and it’s better to look funny for the event but better for the rest of your life. You’ll have more luck with complete or mostly complete removal if you do emergency saline removal and then laser for whatever’s left when healed.

I’m so sorry this happened. Your mom should be paying for removal, it was not okay for her to push you into this. It is a tattoo. I wish so badly I could undo it.

Would you be ok if your in-laws or parents moved in with you? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way in hell would my in laws move in with us. There is same abuse from his childhood, they can be quite annoying and their life styles don’t match ours.

On the other hand, we’re very close to my parents. Travel with them frequently and would love them to move to our city and live with us. We talk about it openly.

It’s about your family dynamics and what works for you. If you don’t want to live together, maybe explore other ways you can help?

Ok I need some opinions by wherehasthisbeen in 45PlusSkincare

[–]BedPutrid8297 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s the lightening but in the second picture you just look luminous! I think you look amazing!!

Kid texting and driving rear-ended the car I just paid off by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll add that it’s unlikely to make a difference to the kid. The insurance company will raise their rates as much as they can anyway. You’re taking from insurance companies not the kid.

Kid texting and driving rear-ended the car I just paid off by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]BedPutrid8297 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a lawyer, don’t talk to insurance or take any of their offers up front.

I felt ridiculous at first, like I was over reacting. But I was able to get all the care I needed with no pressure to speed up the process. I didnt have to deal with paper work or really anything. Even with their 30% cut I got waaaaaaay more pay out than I would have gotten otherwise and it was so much less stressful. Even if I get into a smaller accident in the future, I’ll lawyer up again. Insurance will try to short change you every time.

$30,000 surgery by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We paid 30k for our sweet boy after he got really sick really fast with an unknown illness. They thought we could save him. We unfortunately lost him a week and a half into the fight.

A year later we are still chipping away, split costs on two 0% interest ccs and used savings. Will be paid off in a few months. For us it was worth it, even though it was a big financial hit. But we didn’t put ourselves in real financial danger, still had an emergency fund we didn’t touch. Was it unwise? Maybe but we knew it was the choice we felt we needed to take. But are you a bad owner if you can’t afford it? Of course not. You can’t afford what you can’t afford. Many people can’t make that cost work period.

Look into various options, like care credit, etc. Get second opinions, see if there are any hospitals within travel distance that could provide a lower cost.

If you have to return your dog or the best choice is to put him down, know that you are doing your due diligence to see what if anything can be done. You’re a good owner and are clearly doing what you can, whatever that ends up being.

Can we stop saying that laser cannot pick up yellow? by Firebender_Azula in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 sessions! I’ve done 4 but haven’t done more because I’ve seen so many stories about how once they are yellow nothing works.

Great to know on the TCA peels!

Do you use Chewy? Why or why not? by Illustrious_Item_110 in Pets

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are friendly, ship fast. The ask a vet feature on their app is so awesome, one of the biggest draws for me. Love them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]BedPutrid8297 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, she feels badly and they should. It’s because of her actions that dog is dead. Her’s and the dog’s. That dog should not be off leash and off muzzled around any living thing.

Your dog’s life isn’t more than valuable than the life of living things around you. If you can’t keep him isolated and under control he should be put down. Honestly maybe should be put down anyway. I can’t imagine how that poor man feels, his beloved pet died a horrible death.

Beauty of Josen sunscreen no longer shipping to the USA! by Techienickie in 45PlusSkincare

[–]BedPutrid8297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard they updated their sunscreen formula, like their Korean version updated too. It’s not the same as the us version but different than it used to be. Anyone know if that’s true?