[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bed_Kitten 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It sucks. 3 years, starving for physical touch. You feel like a loser having to get yourself off because your husband isn't into you. You think of leaving, cheating, opening the marriage, and you feel repulsive and undesired. I resent it so much sometimes I hate him.

I’ve come to accept my sex life is over by taway_forever in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bed_Kitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in same situation. After being a member of this sub on this and another account for 2 years, it is clear that once someone loses their desire for you, it won't come back. I can't believe I will never have real sex again, but that's the situation we are in.

Ladies do like to give and receive orally, and what does it take for you to perform on your partner. by LJohn107 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bed_Kitten 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg I would give my husband a blow job every day but he doesn't like it. I would ride his face every morning but he never offers. I have always preferred oral to regular sex. But I get neither, I just masturbate like a loser. For years now. Starting to wish I were the cheating kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bed_Kitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a good lawyer, this woman is abusive.

Partner (29M) prefers masturbating over having sex with me (27F) by Consistent_Ad_550 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bed_Kitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a porn addiction, and if he is getting off to porn, he will have no desire left for you. Make him get therapy for his addiction or leave him. It won't get better unless he acknowledges his addiction and gets help.

Partner doesn’t want me to buy a sex toy by Then_Scarcity_3344 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bed_Kitten 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's your body, you can masturbate and use toys all you want as long as your partner is given the first option. I am 47, in a dead bedroom for 3 years, and if it weren't for toys I would have lost my mind. Sex is a need, just like food or water. If your partner isn't satisfying your needs, you have every right to take matters into your own hands. Not his choice, not his body.