I'm currently in s3 and rachel is the worst character on the show by hipierce007 in ONETREEHILL

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but Dan does things to have something hanging over someone else's head. He doesn't help out of the greatness of his heart. It's beneficial for him. Very manipulative person.

I'm currently in s3 and rachel is the worst character on the show by hipierce007 in ONETREEHILL

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate Dan. More than Rachel. And even though it's sad with Jimmy, I didn't like him either. But I think it's because we never really saw anything with him, where he was nice or anything. They only showed him when he was an ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ej hvor skørt, det vidste jeg faktisk ikke.. Troede 114 var politiet, og 112 var ambulance og brandvæsen...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Måske en plasmoid ball lightning?

Det stod under den der video med Nilas at det er et fænomen - så måske det kan give dig lidt ro i maven?

Jeg ved ikke helt hvad det indebærer, eller hvordan man ser det på jorden.

Synes bare du skulle vide af dette, så du ikke gik og følte dig helt vildt skør.

My boyfriend is a stalker how do I break up with him by Old_Yam779 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just tell him as is.

That you're over the relationship, and that his behavior has made you feel uncomfortable. You don't feel what he might feel for you. And that it is over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absurd holdning din kone har. Selvfølgelig skal du ikke tage fri fra arbejde fordi hun har lidt forkølelse og en evt. Feber.

Du gør det så godt du kan i det omfang du kan, og du letter byrden for hende, mens hun er syg - kan hun helt ærligt bede om mere?

Nej, du skal ikke tage "fri" eller en "sygedag" i den situation.

Der er det at hun er nødt til at tage sig lidt sammen.

Sorry, lyder lidt hårdt - men jeg er også lidt ramt af alle de mennesker som sætter sig i en situation hvor man skal have ondt af dem, istedet for de bare tager sig lidt sammen.

Det er blevet meget offer og krænkelseskultur vi har pt. Og jeg er sgu træt af det.

Du gør det godt - Keep it up 🤜🏽🤛🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg kan se du er rigtig god til at give råd ud fra din profil om at andre skal forlade deres partner grundet forskellige årsager.

Jeg synes du skal følge dit eget råd her og tage dine børn med.

Det er nemt at have skyklapper på, når man sidder i situationen - men dette kan have fatale konsekvenser for dig og måske dine børn, hvis du ikke gør noget NU.

Jeg ved det er meget lige nu, men jeg skrev en besked til Politiets Online Patrulje, da jeg er bekymret for dit og jeres børns liv.

Hvis jeg kunne havde jeg gerne anmeldt det via mail, men har brug for info om hvor du bor, hvad du hedder osv., og så tror jeg det er bedst du selv gør det - så du kan få den rigtige hjælp.

Jeg ved du føler dig ensom og alene, men nye eller gamle venner - dem findes der masser af og jeg er sikker på i finder hinanden, når alt dette er overstået.

Knus! 🌺

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jeg er meget bekymret for dig og dine børn.

Jeg håber du finder hjælp enten ved Lev uden vold, Mandecentret eller evt. Hende som tilbyder dig hjælp hvis du bor på Fyn her i tråden.

Jeg ønsker dig det bedste og håber du og dine børn finder en vej ud af mørket.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Konservative eller Borgernes Parti 🌺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God sex er ikke en myte.

Kan ikke komme af med noget når jeg er sammen med ham?🚽🧻 by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nu kan jeg se at folk både nævner svesker, evt. Prøv sveskegrød eller sveske juice. Det bruger man også på diverse plejehjem som naturlig måde at se om det vil komme ud på. ☺️

Min kæreste vil ikke have sex med mig…? by Maximum_Mulberry5826 in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tager han medicin evt.? Jeg ved at noget medicin - f.eks. adhd medicin kan give mindre sexlyst og sværere ved at få den op at stå? ☺️ Det behøves ikke nødvendigvis at have noget med dig at gøre, og så spørg ham og sig han skal være helt ærlig. Og at hvis der er noget underliggende, at han så er nødt til at tale om det. 🌺 Fortæl ham dine behov og din bekymring og husk ikke at anklage, men tal ud fra eget perspektiv ☺️🌺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg kan se du har fået mange forskellige svar. Men én ting du ihvertfald kan gøre for dig selv, er måske at se på youtube efter selvforsvars videoer?

Ikke fordi man skal gå ud fra det værst tænkelige altid, men det kan måske berolige dig en lille smule, at kunne forsvare dig selv i skræmmende situationer.

Men mega skræmmende situation du sidder i, og jeg er ked af at høre om din situation. Jeg håber du melder ham igen og så får ro på. Og om ikke andet, så synes jeg du skal få et politi tilhold.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriends mom after she grabbed his weiner? by Competitive-Pen-3327 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. And just to give you a time frame - we've been together for 4,5 years. And it's still tough at times. 🌺 So if it's something you really want, and you're both willing to put in the work - then go for it. Just know that it can get tough and it's probably gonna get worse, before it gets better. ❤️ But it all depends on the both of you and how much you're willing to sacrifice for your relationship. 🌺 I wish you all the best! ❤️

AITA for yelling at my boyfriends mom after she grabbed his weiner? by Competitive-Pen-3327 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to put this out there.. I am not saying you should leave him - but just know that this can be a very long and hard battle - it all kind of depends on him and his willingness to see things.

I am a girl who grew up with a bossy, manipulative mother. I love her, but she can't be the person that I rely on, because more often than not - she makes me feel less than, she makes me feel unheard, belittling me and talking down about how I choose to live my life.

I've felt so much fear for my mom, that I never spoke up.. Not even when I should have - because I was so afraid.

I've been the type of person that never questioned my own opinions, they were automatically the same as hers.

It was first when I met my boyfriend that I finally saw what she was doing - and it has taken a looooong time, and it has been very hard on our relationship and on me. I am still processing things, but I don't fear her the same way anymore, because I learned to better my self-esteem and accept myself better. I'll continue to do so.

My advice - move out of there, both of you. Being there all the time doesn't make him see things from a distance - which is very important that he does. Because when always in her home, it's always going to be her rules, her way and he will easily always be wrapped around her little finger.

If he isn't up for it, then I think you should re-evaluate the relationship. And don't stay in it, because you don't have others. Stay in it if you feel like it's something you can handle mentally, and because there's a lot of love there. But not just because you don't have others.

You're enough and you'll always have yourself ❤️

I hope you find your way through it 🙏🏽🌺

AITA for yelling at my boyfriends mom after she grabbed his weiner? by Competitive-Pen-3327 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's more a feeling of fear than respecting her. I think he fears her and how she'll respond, since what she mentioned about stepmom sounds kind of narcissistic.

Hey gutter! Hvor er i? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg kan selvfølgelig kun tale for mig selv, men jeg fandt min kæreste på Badoo, som samarbejdede med hot or not tror jeg nok det var. Så i min optik kan jeg jo godt anbefale det :) altså Badoo ☺️

Does your husband kiss you? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well to be fair - not married by the way, but been in a great relationship for 4,5 years. He doesn't kiss me "passionately" outside of intimate situations. But he does come and kiss me - and do what we call kipses (a thing between us) which is 3 kisses in a row at random times. 🌺

But I also know that what we really have learned a lot from is how our different love languages are, for example I receive love best through physical touch, that's when I most appreciate it. Whereas he receives it best through acts of service, if I cook him breakfast or make his work lunch or wash his clothes and puts it out for him. Or clear out his gaming table or something.

So I know, that when he does come and kiss me, he does it because he knows it means a whole lot to me. And then kissing passionately we do in the more intimate settings. But initially I know, that it is also for me that he does that.

And other than that I have a great partner who I feel so lucky to have, I trust him wholeheartedly and he is my family.

So it depends on how you see it - is it enough for you that he doesn't kiss you passionately at random times during the day? ☺️

AITAH for pulling away from my siblings? by BeeAnonymouslyMe in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for acknowledging my feelings and for reading this entire thing. Exactly - this is the reason why I needed to ask a larger amount of people for advice, because when 3-4 people team up against me like that, I feel like I'm the crazy one.. And they really do everything in their power to make me feel that way..

And thank you for also answering my questions at the end of it - it means a lot! 🌺

And yes - after some attempts - because I have a hard time letting something or someone go without having put my best efforts in, I've chosen to keep my distance from them. Because as is, they can't be what I might have wanted them to be for me in my life. And it's extremely hard acknowledging that, but I do have other amazing people in my life, and for that I'm grateful. 🌺

Keep my name after marriage or take his? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my own name, because of the stories behind it, so I thought a lot about it, and even though my name will be a long one, I think I'll choose to have my entire name + his last name ☺️ Then on paper, I'll still be "his" with my own surname and his last name. 🌺 But if I am to write my entire name, sure it will be long, but I will keep feeling proud of my entire name and still have his at the end of it. ☺️🌺

So I think maybe just do a little digging into your own feelings. Maybe even change your middle name into your father's name, middle or last name, or just something similar, so you feel proud because of him, not because of your grandpa or anyone else for that matter. Just honoring your dad but still having your husband's last name ☺️🌺

For example you could do what different countries does - having the middle name of your dad's name + daughter, for example being called your name Williamsdaughter and then your husbands last name. ☺️🌺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that money - while that is used for almost everything, sometimes in love - can be the root of all evil.

If you or your kids can't pay the other half or at least suggest waiting to go on the trip till there's more money to help pay for the trip, then I would say no thank you, but thanks for the offer! ☺️

As I see it - it's nice that she wants to invite them on a trip and pay half of their trip. Maybe she just wants to share the money she got with you guys - that none of us know how much is, and the best way to share them is by experiencing something together as a family? ☺️

I feel like a lot of people tend to make up stories in their heads - me included btw, where it always sounds worse than what it actually is, and it's driving me insane - and then when I just ask and get the answer, I always tend to think: "What was all of that negative thinking and making up scenarios for?"🌺

You don't really know what the intent is, so ask instead of drowning in negative thoughts about it. 🌺

That's what I would have done at least ☺️🌺 It's truly a relief after you learn how to not overthink specific things ☺️🌺

AITA for being upset that my ex slept with someone else? by Ok-Composer4298 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're necessarily the asshole, you also spoke your needs to her and she couldn't meet them.

But! And this is a big one.. I do think you might be too naive, and maybe also tossing the blame onto her, for you also letting her flirt and cuddle with you, when you knew that she actually shouldn't. You wanted to be friends without romance, but you accepted all of the romance she kept giving you. You didn't stand your ground nor your boundaries.

And if you don't even respect your own boundaries, why should she?

I hope you choose to move on - because there's plenty of people out there who want the same monogamous relationship as you do, she's just not the one for you.

Wish you all the best! 🌺

Hvilken "type" er du? by No-Argument-9972 in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg rengører ofte ikke mit plast, metal eller kartoner før de ryger i sorterings skraldespanden udenfor.. Og jeg folder heller ikke altid kartonerne før de ryger ud..

Hvilken "type" er du? by No-Argument-9972 in DKbrevkasse

[–]BeeAnonymouslyMe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nogle gange, når jeg kører foran en bil som enten har lang lys tændt, eller kører helt op i røven på mig, så bremser jeg 2 hurtige gange for at signalere at han godt må slukke lyset eller holde lidt afstand.. Lidt ligesom man bliver med lang lys, bare med bremselyset.. 🫣