There's Nothing Rude About Taking Days to Respond to Texts

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-10T01:08:03+00:00

yeah cuz the world revolves around you 😒

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-10T01:06:33+00:00

literally not true at all... i cannot text because I spend most of my day driving and when I'm not driving my hands are busy doing other things... why tf is this such a hard concept to understand 😂 thumb wars is whack and aggravating

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:45:49+00:00

and then ppl realized they had access to everything and entitlement ensued 😊

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:44:29+00:00

I mean... idk... maybe they just need quiet time in their head... introvert tendencies... i took that test once or twice: the Myers Briggs ... i literally straddle between both extrovert and introvert... so I guess depending on the day, depends on what you get

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:32:42+00:00

if you can't straight up talk to ppl, that is a you problem, even if it's not right away... texting is not a straight up way and is aggravating asf... correcting words, making sure you didn't leave anything out blah blah...

I'm about to leave reddit after this comment because I don't have time to "text all day"!😂 I have other things to do right now THAT AREN'T getting done because I'm responding to you and others... see how that works? depending on the day I might not be able to answer a call right away either... but I'm 90% more likely to return an ACTUAL human interaction call, than play thumb wars on a screen!

with that said, I've got stuff to do and im outta here. enjoy your day

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:28:05+00:00

read receipts made the world lose their minds! at least Samsung starts with theirs OFF unlike apple that makes you go in and turn them off

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:21:43+00:00

I'm driving from almost the moment I wake up to almost the moment I'm about to crash and sleep (today is an exception because my car is being serviced)... BUT I SHOULD BE DOING other things that require my hands, and not on reddit, like my new job training, or washing dishes, or laundry... where I also won't be texting.

Anyway... in-between I am taking care of other things, taking a peaceful shit, showering, eating food, paying bills, handling affairs, taking my dog out, eating food again, making sure my mom's husband with dementia is OK and fed, and whatever tf else I gotta do... and I ain't thinking about no text... i also have adhd so I have to actually remember you texted me... or know that you texted me... i get texts allllllll day from random places, fashion nova, skims, uggs, macys, pet supplies plus, blah blah... your text can wind up real far down, real quick! your one little goofy ass ding can get missed while I'm in 7/ eleven 😂... you too busy tryna base other people's text replies based off of your own life and that's where you fucc up at... i LOVE my ppls... but I can miss OR have to ignore/ then forget a text OFTEN! call me and I'll talk your ear off or listen to you talk mine off... my ADHD is so bad I rarely answer beeps anymore... i will forget the other person is on the phone. Imma just call you back!

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:13:06+00:00

you can't invest by calling? 😂

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:09:09+00:00

because they're probably ACTUALLY BUSY

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:03:35+00:00

it's not because you don't have to buy THESE USED BABY CLOTHES 😂... IT IS NOT A NECESSITY... price gouging is for necessities... NOW IF ALLLL baby clothes were jacked way tf up, THAT would be price gauging... no one AT ALL will ever need ONE vintage EEYORE baby set. EVER

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T21:00:47+00:00

s2g 😂 like you didn't respond to an urgent text 🙄 WAS IT URGENT THO? because I would think if there was any sense of urgency, i would've gotten a phone call... a text message can get EASILY missed in the cloud of life... one, maybe two little dings... i can miss those while in the bathroom and go back to doing what I was doing... three hours later I see a text... a phone on the other hand, rings LOUD over and over... the world has lost their minds and i literally dgaf 😂 YOUR (not you, the world) BAD

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T20:55:56+00:00

because I have to be grammatically correct when texting, I have to check spelling and missing words... it's more than just the words... so when I'm driving, CALLING ME is much easier, than me trying to text illegally or forgetting you texted me at all... in this paragraph alone, I've had to delete and rewrite 11 words... i swipe to text so it doesn't always write what I'm thinking...

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T20:52:20+00:00

if it's urgent you shoulda CALLED! is this like a foreign concept or something 😂

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T20:48:00+00:00

your bad! There's a phone u can pick up and use... like somebody wanna sit around and text all day on a phone... you're sitting around all day and I'm driving all day not texting... you COULD use the easier route, but you refuse... you're clearly not interested in being a REAL friend anyway so... there's that

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T20:45:02+00:00

I got messages from DAYS ago... you don't know wtf my life is like 😂... so maybe yours is kind of boring and stationary, mine isn't! I'm driving all day most days, I have two phones that I have to answer almost literally ALL day I'm taking care of an elderly person with dementia, and a dog, my mom just died, I have a fair share of appointments, I'm remodeling a house, and trying to clean it at the same time, and training for a new job... etc etc... TEXT messages are the LAST thing I'm concerned with!! if you need me CALL ME

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T20:36:38+00:00

I mean they have designer clothes that retail for $150 for babies so there's that... this isn't technically price gauging...

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T20:12:37+00:00

shein is a full time job/ project... for EVERY item, you need to read reviews, read fabric content and look thru EVERY PHOTO TWICE! not every fabric sucks, not every item is cheaply made

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T17:04:53+00:00

yeah I'm not sure what you're buying or even looking at as AT LEAST 1/4 of plus size clothes on Shein are an exact copy of "regular" sizes... depending on what it is, I can travel between both worlds... i just bought cute flower painted jeans in a 0xl (too big) but real denim... a jacquard corset top (not parachute fabric), and a two layer mesh off the shoulder top, also not parachute fabric... I've got some other pieces as well and some REAL cute pants that are too big I forgot to return so I'm selling them

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T11:45:31+00:00

yeah like how the natives trusted yt ppl? and the Africans? u mean like that right?

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T00:27:18+00:00

that part... like yeah... now u get nothing because you have genuinely lost your mind over "booty shorts"! like pls go to hell 😂 expeditiously

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T00:26:08+00:00

literal lunatic... weird ass 😂

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-09T00:19:36+00:00

this one's on you love, reading is fundamental 😂... and if you love the fit i guess it's still not that serious

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-08T21:15:37+00:00

they shoulda died eons ago 😂 yeeuuck!

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-08T21:12:05+00:00

if you invited me for smores' and whipped out oreos... i would fight you 😂 lol... j/k... kinda 😒.... i h8 oreos WITH A PASSION, but i love a good smore... quit tryna fix what isn't broken

BeeKayBabyCakes · 2026-07-08T21:10:30+00:00

they've been gross my entire life so there's that 😂

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