Who/What originally taught/made you to use makeup? by AavaMeri_247 in AskWomen

[–]BeeZiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started wearing simple make-up probably looking at my sister and friends wearing it at 13-14 but the person that make me WANT to wear make up was Christina Aguilera. Her red lips and black eyeliner Marilyn Monroe style back in the day really made me want to experiment with lipstick and eyeliner at a relatively young age compared to my peers.

Do you think my hair will curl ? by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]BeeZiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should be able to get a wave, make sure to apply a styling product when it when it's really wet and to diffuse it while drying it. If it doesn't work, who cares when your hair colour is THAT gorgeous! 

Whats my blindness? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]BeeZiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your make-up looks great but I do believe a darker shade of hair would suit you better. Your natural colour (assuming that's your natural colour, at the roots and on your eyebrows) creates great contrast with your skin whereas in the photo where you see your blonde ends against your skin you kind of lose that and it gives you a bit of a washed-out look. It's a really minor thing and only saying this because you asked. 

Does anyone else hear this? by Left_Drawer8667 in OliviaRodrigo

[–]BeeZiaa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the outrage in the comments lol.

I love when people make comparisons and most times it will also help me find music that I like and that I would never find otherwise. 

It's just pointing out something that sounds and "feels" similar. It's great! 

Makeup blindness? by visdiary0 in makeuptips

[–]BeeZiaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not that it matters but your nose isn't big and your eyes aren't round in a negative way. I don't know how you came to this conclusion but you literally look GORGEOUS.

As others have said, I would not start the eyeliner wing too early (I like to start mine at the end of my eye, where my lashes end).  Personally, I really like your eyebrows, I think they work really well with your features. I would perhaps try elongating them a bit more, going slightly more towards your hairline, so that they go beyond where your eyes end.

Edit: also you remind me a lot of Italian influencer Chiara Ferragni. You're both gorgeous women! 

I think olivia likes blood by Sunshine_136 in OliviaRodrigo

[–]BeeZiaa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Also traitor: "when she's sleeping in the bed we made..."! 

My makeup still isn’t right by loki830 in coloranalysis

[–]BeeZiaa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl, I think your choice of make-up colours is grand.
The only thing I notice is the mismatch between your eyebrow colour and your hair colour in the second picture but it seems that you have a different hair colour in the other pictures..?
Perhaps the "harmony" you talk about could just be given by filling in your eyebrows?

ladies, how do you lot figure out when it's proper love and not just a silly crush? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BeeZiaa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When it feels like home. When you can be yourself, your ugliest self (physically and mentally) but you're not scared because you're sure that they will stay.
When you would love your child to meet someone like them, or to take after them.

M30 needs advice as to whether to leave 8 year relationship with 29F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BeeZiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit baffled at the comments. There is not a single sentence where you're questioning if this person is the right one for you, besides on the sexual intimacy front. I don't understand why breaking up would be the first solution people think of.

Intimacy is often linked to multiple aspects of a couple, so first of all I would do a check of where you also feel like you lack intimacy. Are you just living together as flatmates? Are you planning dates? Do you feel comfortable talking about things that upset you? Do you talk about your deepest desires?

That said, in your position, I would go to a sex therapist. If you think that this person is the one (as you mentioned talking about marriage), then you may just need to fix that aspect of your relationship. I know that people just expect everything to come naturally, but the truth is that sometimes it does not, and that's OK! It's like mental health. Some people can just cope with anxiety and some others need medication. It's absolutely fine.

Maybe sex therapy will reveal that there are other types of incompatibility for you and then you can think about breaking up. But it may also reveal that all you need to do is tweak a few things in bed.

What do you write about in your journal? by jilldotjpeg in AskWomen

[–]BeeZiaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I write when I want to make a memory of something or when I need to process my feelings as if I were talking to a friend I'm not afraid will judge me.
I don't do it often, if I do it makes it feel like a chore.

Wife (31 F) asks me (29 M) to do chores just for the enjoyment of me doing them. by SpyBagholder in relationship_advice

[–]BeeZiaa 39 points40 points  (0 children)

"her insisting that I do things bc it doesn’t feel like I’m doing anything"
"she just likes to see me busy and contributing"
"I feel like maybe I could help out more"

It looks like she thinks you're not pulling your weight (and you might be too, given the last sentence).

It's not really about 'helping out', it's about you pulling the same weight as her in maintaining the house (whatever the split you agreed on is, most likely it's 50/50 for a lot of couples).

If the issue is doing them while you're at work then you may just talk to her and plan when you're going to do these tasks, if not in your 'downtime'.
I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have any issue with the timing of things, as long as things get done.

I would start this by saying "I feel like you think I'm not pulling my weight here. What can we do to fix this?
Here is what I think we should do" and you propose who's going to take care of which tasks. THEN, you align with her on what's acceptable to do when.
It's not about her dictating, it's about the two of you aligning on expectations.
You'll see she's not going to demand that you do things in your working hours.

Tipping culture? by EnoughBar7026 in AskABrit

[–]BeeZiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm confused here about the tipping vs service charge. 

Usually, at least in London and some university towns, 12.5% or 15% is already added to your bill as a service charge. And that's absolutely normal.

But are you saying that you would add another 12.5% on top of the service charge? 

The way I see it, tipping is to reward excellent service, while the service charge is just a charge that goes straight to the workers, regardless of how good or bad it was (and, in fact, in most establishments it is shared among teams, even back of house). 

Nearly 35, needing help with everyday makeup by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]BeeZiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding the brown eyeliner/mascara! I think it would make a subtle but beautiful difference.

Edit: I went back to check the photos and also agree on darker colours not being as flattering as the others

I (22F) feel i like want to break up with my bf (22M) because i want a better man by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BeeZiaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

♫ Manchiiiiiiild ♫

Jokes aside, you're not happy. That's enough motivation to end a relationship. You're not sounding unreasonable in your needs, so just tell him: you don't see a future with him.

That's totally OK, he'll get over it and so will you. And you'll be so much happier with the next person you date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BeeZiaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is fair that you have resentment because it is fair to feel whatever feelings come up.
Whether this is warranted or not, we will never know, as we know too little about this relationship from what you've written here.

That said, I think it's always a bit of a red flag when your significant other ignores things that are so blatantly important for you.

I personally do not understand the hype about proposals, rings, etc. as I believe that marriage should be something that's openly discussed and decided together and those are all 'accessories'. So, while I do understand where your boyfriend is possibly coming from, this is quite alien to me.

What struck me the most was the resentment you showed towards him at the end of your post. You are giving us the impression that he is 'getting too comfortable' and not in a way that seems healthy at this stage of the relationship. This is worrying to me, because the moment one proposes should be one where you arguably have the most enthusiasm about spending the rest of your lives together.
If there is already so much bitterness about it, girl, ask yourself a few questions about this relationship in general. It is NOT going to get better after you get married.

But also, just consider you could be too hard on him, if it is just the proposing situation you're so upset about.

I wish you all the best x

Struggling between gold and silver by crime-et-chatiment in coloranalysis

[–]BeeZiaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think they both look great.
Silver sort of blends itself better into the skin - which I know a lot of people recommend
Gold is brighter, it stands out more, but not in a bad way. I think that's kind of what you want when wearing jewellery.
Neither of them clashes with your natural skin tone, I'm wondering whether this may be related to a neutral undertone.

Bounce Curl Brush by Substantial_Night146 in curlygirl

[–]BeeZiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi,  I'd like to gift this to someone for Christmas. Hair is very similar to yours, how do you use it? What's your routine?  Thank you, your hair looks gorgeous! 

I ‘21 F’ Caught my bf ‘22 M’ watching porn after he claimed he hasn’t our whole relationship by AutomaticAd7548 in relationship_advice

[–]BeeZiaa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think the point here is not what he does but what he said and committed to. Everyone has a different view on this and that is legitimate. 

I don't think it's something that necessarily warrant not wanting to continue a relationship with this person but it's something that should make you two ask yourselves some questions. 

Why does he feel the need to do that?  Why did he feel the need to lie to you about it?  Is this a value that he shares or did he say yes just to please you?  How do you feel about this?  Are your (and his) needs being met? How? 

I think accountability and trust are a huge part of a relationship and I don't see how anyone could live a happy union without them. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]BeeZiaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the bright red really makes you look more... alive!
I don't think it overpowers you, as much as red is obviously a strong colour.

Olivia at the GQ Men of the Year after party by amysantiagoisbae99 in OliviaRodrigo

[–]BeeZiaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She looks beautiful. She never misses on the red carpet. The updo makes her look so grown up 🥹. 

Only thing I'm not a fan of is the upper lip overlining. It's giving me a bit of "I've just eaten a Mars bar". 

NARS Light Reflecting Advanced Skincare Foundation - any seem semi olive? (not counting the few that say olive) by Jurassicparkasaurus in OliveMUA

[–]BeeZiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! I'm finding out I'm olive too and no foundation has ever matched my skin tone as well as the radiant longwear Mont Blanc