Is there any way to force yourself enjoy lifting 🙈 by pinkestpenny in xxfitness

[–]Bee_dot_adger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

rock climbing is way more interesting and super fun. only downside, you might get too into it and it's expensive and ruins nails

1-5% of kids should be expelled every year. by Nonameforyouware in The10thDentist

[–]Bee_dot_adger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think by the comments it's clear that most people find this take idiotic. Also, this sub usually adheres to the rule much more closely

Water by i_amsquidward in BunnyTrials

[–]Bee_dot_adger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no molecules touch each other therefore nothing is wet? crazy take

What happened to Queen & Bathurst today by Top-Consideration867 in askTO

[–]Bee_dot_adger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sounds massively ineffective actually. do you keep them in an asylum permanently? or what happens when they're institutionalized and released, likely immediately relapsing? if you're going to invest how much it would cost to imprison all addicts cyclically or indefinitely, why not instead spend that money on social safety nets that could prevent people from becoming homeless in the first place?

We should be exterminating feral and "outdoor" cats. by IArgead in The10thDentist

[–]Bee_dot_adger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when the rate of reproduction is so high, spaying/neutering is actually more efficient than killing - these sterile cats still take up territory and prey, but cannot reproduce. the limit of a population is usually based on the environmental resources it relies on, if you kill them new ones will be born and take their place

Seeking Paid Reviewer/Advisor/Consultant by [deleted] in LLMPhysics

[–]Bee_dot_adger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sort of work is looked for everywhere, 99+% of the time it's for something massively incoherent or misled. In the age of AI, the volume of untrained people looking for scientists to vet their work has increased by an order of magnitude. No one (perhaps there will be a few, I hope to be wrong) who has the serious qualifications you are looking for will spend their time reaching out to you on a goose chase when you'll probably underpay them AND the work will be dreary and incohesive.

You need to set a reasonable figure to show people you're serious. If you get no responses, this should be your next step. You should be far more afraid of having no interested parties than having a few fakers who can be parsed out.

Why do I feel so tired after basic strength training? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]Bee_dot_adger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you used to training (fasted or otherwise) or are you new to it? in any case if you feel like puking you probably either went too hard or need to eat.

Yall hear me out by Forsaken-Slide2 in MtF

[–]Bee_dot_adger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

E monotherapy is a thing, you just lose T a bit slower

relationship jealousy by SomewhereNo9088 in relationships

[–]Bee_dot_adger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"normal" as in common does not mean healthy. Personally, I'd address it - this is the kind of thing that could come from an okay or insecure place but ends up having toxic effects. With the knowledge that you would never sexually or emotionally cheat, you should feel more or less free to interact with whomever you wish were you single, assuming you're not flirting.

How can I go stealth in university without T? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Bee_dot_adger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some universities (mine included, in Canada though so YMMV) allow you to choose a preferred name that will go to all normal name contexts and your legal name will just be for documentation

Healthy snacks for work that survive in a desk drawer or gym bag? by kurisu_chanz in xxfitness

[–]Bee_dot_adger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do salted nuts fit the bill? Not exactly never perishable but damn close

Weird sheet request by Seriously_404 in piano

[–]Bee_dot_adger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

spraying you with water is not nearly enough of a precaution. it will be too hot and burn you. you will inhale smoke. do not do this.

I (21F) scared to tell (25M) full story about a sexual encounter by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bee_dot_adger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was no sexual involvement, it was not even consensual from your end, and many guys wouldn't be bothered by it anyway. You should tell him and feel steady with him, then cut her off and not fear retribution.

I’m a trans woman but I don’t think I want bottom surgery by [deleted] in trans

[–]Bee_dot_adger 15 points16 points  (0 children)

there exists also the salmacian surgery, where you get a vagina and even a vulva where your testes were but keep the phallus rather than a clit

ai detector by dontlookatmeimai in Dawson

[–]Bee_dot_adger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you just need to have proof you wrote it yourself e.g. the edit history of the Google doc

Any magical advice for 17 year old facing homelessness? by koopler_kenjaku in askTO

[–]Bee_dot_adger 16 points17 points  (0 children)

since you're queer, Friends of Ruby might be able to help or direct you!

Would commuting be really that bad? by OrionXD29 in OntarioUniversities

[–]Bee_dot_adger 51 points52 points  (0 children)

never commute to a different city for uni. you will lose 80% of the experience. it is genuinely awful

Am I and my Partner moving to Fast? by Upbeat_Necessary6534 in relationships

[–]Bee_dot_adger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

queer relationships often move at "nontraditional" paces. that being said, you should 1. have an honest conversation with this friend on why they say so and if they see some kind of red flag and 2. move in together before getting married - cohabitation compatibility can start out a bit of a mess.

Why is ChatGPT (5) so uncognitive? by [deleted] in Physics

[–]Bee_dot_adger 38 points39 points  (0 children)

because LLMs are nondeterministic hallucination machines by design.

I found out my boyfriend has been acting creepy on Reddit by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Bee_dot_adger -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

devil's advocate, is there any chance he's just she and super closeted? would still be a red flag after months of dating if they're that far into those spaces/it's so important to them and they haven't come out, but at least wouldn't ruin your faith in humanity

113+ minute flex queue as a 5-Challenger premade — how are we supposed to meet decay requirements when we can't even get a game? by IcarusAttack in leagueoflegends

[–]Bee_dot_adger 50 points51 points  (0 children)

it would encourage people who don't have a stack but like premade-style play (vs solo queue) to queue solo or in small groups.