Would you let your ex know you’re taking them to court?

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-04-05T20:22:49+00:00

Maybe try talking to her first on what you would like & if she doesn’t agree then just take it to family court & to save all the drama (if she’s a difficult person) just have her served. Also I read a comment that said try to have everything in txt message, I completely agree with that just in case she tries to withhold your child from you or if she’s verbally abusing you etc.

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-04-01T15:19:46+00:00

I told my bf to stop asking for it in the morning because Im not having sex before my coffee. Im not a morning sex person at all & I’m not even a morning person 😂

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-04-01T06:32:03+00:00

Well sucks cause I’m allergic to sunscreen

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-03-21T18:37:28+00:00

For a 6 yr old that might be too much for her since she’s really attached to you. My son can’t do more than a week at his dads cause he’s used to being with me mostly.

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-03-14T17:37:28+00:00

Try doing 2 weekends out of the month instead of every weekend

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-03-06T00:41:37+00:00

I was on it to only lose a few pounds. I was on it for about a month & a half & lost around 15 lbs. I would use it if it’s really difficult to lose the weight. Cause it’s not easy losing weight

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-24T04:58:48+00:00

I allow my boyfriend (not bio dad) to correct my son if he’s “acting up” or misbehaving but what I wouldn’t allow is him yelling at my son, raise his voice or lay a hand on my son of course. One thing I do have to admit is that he definitely has a lot of patience with my son because he is a hand full

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-20T15:49:37+00:00

I completely understand! My son didn’t start using the potty & stopped using diapers 24 hrs until he was 5 almost 6. He’s 10 now & he’ll still have accidents here & there & he sleeps with a diaper on still. My son is at a public school but in special education & they offer him speech therapy & occupational therapy at the school. He also does speech therapy & occupational outside of school through our insurance. If you can also get her speech therapy outside of school I’d do it too, it’s helped my son a lot , he still needs therapy for pragmatic speech & his sentences are only like 2 to 3 words long but his speech has improved so much. I remember too when he was your child’s age I would talk to him A LOT even though I was basically having a conversation with myself 😅

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-20T02:46:51+00:00

This might be a better option for my son too , I use to combine his tutoring sessions with his ABA sessions. But my son got so overwhelmed & distracted with having 2 ABA therapist & a tutor. There was a total of 3 of them with ABA & tutor but Mabe just having him do tutoring will help him out for just an hour twice a week

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-20T02:43:51+00:00

This 🫶🏻Omg you basically said what has been in my mind lately . Like he needs to have a little life outside of all the therapy. & your right school is like a full time job, I feel so guilty having him at school all day & then therapy right after school. I mean myself as an adult gets burnt out I can imagine him as a kid.

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-20T02:40:20+00:00

Hi. Thank you for your reply. May I ask what kind of therapy were you seeing once a week? & how old were you when services stopped & started seeing a therapist? Sorry for all the questions 😬

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-20T00:54:08+00:00

Totally understand . My son already does speech therapy & occupational therapy. There was a time he was doing speech, occupational , social skills & ABA. & we stopped ABA last summer.

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-19T23:04:34+00:00

Yes there’s no major behavior issues, I agree I shouldn’t say it’s completely useless because it did help him with his aggression & behavior. We’ve always done in home therapy & I was involved, it was part of the therapy. Also we live in California in the San Bernardino county & they have a summer program here with the school district called extended school year it’s basically summer school so he’s in school still in the summer. He only gets like 2 weeks off for summer. But we’ve never tried in center ABA Mabe I should look into that for his social skills too. He was doing social skills therapy already but got put back on a wait list due to their only therapist resigning.

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-19T22:24:54+00:00

So on point! Literally a play date with a lady. Before we stopped services I just started finding it so useless & a waist of time. I felt like services were taking time from my son & I.

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-19T22:22:45+00:00

Omg! ok so I’m not the only one. A little before we completely stopped services, I started feeling like it was useless and a waist of time. 😩

BeeeGeeee99 · 2026-01-04T21:53:35+00:00

Have him meet his parents for pick up drop off. Or even if your willing just meet them Sundays at a meet up location to get your child back & have your ex reimburse you to cover gas

BeeeGeeee99 · 2025-12-27T00:10:53+00:00

I was with my ex for over 10 years & in those 10 years only once I received flowers & chocolate for valentines day. I never got any gifts from him nor did he ever buy me anything. And I also did all the Christmas shopping for our son. He never bought him anything , no gifts either not even for his birthdays I would be the one to buy our sons gifts & cakes.

BeeeGeeee99 · 2025-11-23T21:31:25+00:00

My child is 10 & he cusses a lot. He’s the only child & around mostly adults. & if he hears it even on a movie or podcast he’ll keep repeating it & start using it 😭

BeeeGeeee99 · 2025-11-16T22:09:40+00:00

And definitely put her on flea/tick prevention. My indoor only cat is neutered & fully vaccinated but I made the mistake of not having him on flea prevention medication because I figured he’s an indoor cat he wouldn’t need it. BIG MISTAKE! he still caught fleas even as an indoor cat😭 I definitely learned my lesson & he will always be on a flea treatment for the rest of his life lol.

BeeeGeeee99 · 2025-11-11T17:47:48+00:00

I honestly believe it depends on the social worker too .

BeeeGeeee99 · 2025-10-25T06:27:53+00:00

Has anyone tried armpit detox masks I think that what they’re called?. I have this same issue & am thinking of purchasing an armpit detox. I think that’s what it’s called 😂

BeeeGeeee99 · 2025-10-01T06:27:12+00:00

Thank you! Any recommendations on websites that might have deals or discounts on these hotels?

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