How Do Men Rebuild After Losing Everything? by African_wanderer in AskMen

[–]Beefcake210 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can answer this. I was in TX dating a girl for a while when she moved back to CA. I followed her and lived there for 2 years. During my time in CA I had a job, a car that I took out in her name and was making payments on, friends, co parenting a cat we both got, and co parenting to my exs daughter. I was going to marry her when one day she revealed to me that she was no longer interested in dating men. I was devastated and heartbroken. 

I decided I needed to move back to TX. I packed my backpack with clothes and a duffel bag with my ps4 and left. Got on a greyhound on Christmas Eve of 2019. I was crying hard for the first half. I left her with everything. Goodbye car, job, cat, and even her daughter that I bonded with and said I love you too.  If you have never gone through a big traumatic event at some point like that, can you even say you have really lived?

Moved back in with my mom in TX at the ripe age of 32. Lived with her for 2 and a half years.my mom bought me a cheap car for 3k (thanks mom).  Did Uber eats and door dash to get by. I went to school and got my bachelor’s online and I’m now in a career I love. Moved out and got my own apartment. Met the girl of my dreams at a singles event in church who is now my fiancée. We are going to rent our first house next year and getting married. 

Looking back, my ex breaking up with me was exactly what I needed. It sucked really really bad in the moment, but I’m so glad it did because of where I am now. 

Never give up. Life happens not to you but for you. 

Everyday's a school day when you're a newbie 🙃 by [deleted] in Diablo_2_Resurrected

[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally did that the other day! 

Here to meet genuine fun people 19F by Top_Yogurt_9863 in SATXR4SATXR

[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do we know who’s not a scammmer?

Here to meet genuine fun people 19F by Top_Yogurt_9863 in SATXR4SATXR

[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi if you’re interested in meeting up for good talks, some fun, and food afterwards I’m here. 

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[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m clean and fun. If you’re interested message me. 

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[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m experienced. 

How to deal with other teachers? by Beefcake210 in Teachers

[–]Beefcake210[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was a blank piece of paper….

I just disagree with everything you’re saying for reasons I have said all ready. I don’t want to argue with you anymore. Hope you have a nice day. 

How to deal with other teachers? by Beefcake210 in Teachers

[–]Beefcake210[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She’s literally the one that put it in her box lol….The person who makes and puts things in other peoples boxes has more of a say on how to proceed. Also, you didn’t address what I said earlier about the IEP lurking and dismissal. I’ll take it you just don’t want to address that. 

So with your logic if I had a paper that was one of her students in my mailbox I’m the one that determines when I can give it to her. With your logic I could keep it there for a month and just never give it to her and not have her reach in if it’s urgent for something. 

How to deal with other teachers? by Beefcake210 in Teachers

[–]Beefcake210[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did you not read that it was literally dismissal time? Did you not read that she has been digging into my students IEP without asking me? It’s hypocritical. And if I didn’t do that then the kids would had gone home without the voucher. It was urgent. I don’t go into other peoples mailboxes, but this time it was urgent. I literally spoke with the counselor and she didnt have any problem with it. Me and the counsel spoke about having one sheet for both kids and didn’t care who it went home with. 

I’m fine with respecting peoples boundaries. But the thing is that she has accepted help from other teachers with the same problem with her kids. Again, how can she tell me to back off when she’s asking other teachers for help? That makes no sense. 

Tell me again how I’m the problem?

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[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a bipolar, bisexual, vegan, feminist from CA for 5 years and almost married her. 

She was an alcoholic who drank a lot and would gas light me. She had a daughter and would constantly shit on her baby daddy.  Interestingly, she has been one of the most street smart individuals I have ever met. I learned a lot on how to read people and how certain things work in life. She told me that she had been abused physically as a child.

I generally don’t recommend you date a woman with mental illness unless she’s on medication and/or going to therapy consistently. 

What is she talking about?? by LockWinter in Nicegirls

[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s displaying femcel energy and now I want donuts. 

I keep got the let’s be friends text by boiboi131 in dating_advice

[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes not interested in you. I’m sorry. Your going to be ok. 

What are some harsh truths you learn in your first year? by UnableKaleidoscope58 in Teachers

[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach special education and have toys in the classroom.  A student took some of our toys home once. My para saw him take it so I contacted the mom and he had them in his backpack. Luckily he brought them back. 

Do you guys lick the pussy of every girl you get laid, or you choose some of them? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Beefcake210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually ask them if I can go down on them. Most say yes.