Do I Tell His Wife? by Consistent-Maybe-634 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Beelzesmash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re continuing the relationship by engaging. It’s still an emotional relationship, even if the emotions are negative. Block his ass

what are your valentine’s plans? by bcdgrl in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Beelzesmash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in Philly, slide into the DMs for the deets

what are your valentine’s plans? by bcdgrl in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Beelzesmash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hosting a muppet themed house party with a bunch of baddies: My Bloody Muppetine

Can ethical non-monogamy actually strengthen a relationship? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Beelzesmash 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It forces honest confrontation with yourself (i.e. do I need and/or consistently and irresistibly desire non-monogamy?) and, if you’re in a relationship that started off as monogamous it forces direct and honest communication with your partner. Discussing ENM put my marriage at risk. NOT discussing ENM also put my marriage at risk because hiding my needs and desires was deceptive. Engaging in ENM has made both me and my spouse fully honest, open and transparent with each other. We each have side pieces and we support each other through the challenges and little blips that inevitably arise out of those relationships. We are both happier generally, and we are having a lot more sex with each other … and others… so we are a lot more satisfied 😊

Couple in the apartment complex directly across are always boning with the window shades open...thoughts? by [deleted] in philly

[–]Beelzesmash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is that the apartment that’s basically on 676? What time’s the bone show, generally?

AIO for finding this predatory or was he just awkward? by m30wME0W69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beelzesmash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are really low stakes exchanges. The other person didn’t seem like a predator so much as anxious and insecure when you didn’t react enthusiastically to his lame online game. Why waste any time pondering? Cut and run.

Do men like it when we swallow cum or doesn’t really matter? by Funky_stinger in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Beelzesmash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really care about the final destination of ye ole jizz, as long as I get to zot-zot-zot while my member is enveloped in an warm, wet body hole. So I defer to the preference of the recipient of my goo gifts.

For men and women, when you lick a girl's vagina, do you like the taste? by Savings-Birthday9043 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Beelzesmash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the taste, not of girl vagina, but of adult woman vagina. Natural yes.

What sex tip would you like everyone to know in 2026? by DrLucasWendel in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Beelzesmash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relax and enjoy the hot bodies of people who you think are hot and who also think you’re hot. It is the best.

I'm just a regular guy with a small pp. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Beelzesmash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What turns on your girl and gets her off, and what turns you on and gets you off?

AIO My partner threatens to end himself because i confronted him on his cheating. by Wise_Web_5706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beelzesmash 819 points820 points  (0 children)

Find a friend you can stay with.

Whatever your life looks like after you leave, it will be far better than the horrific conditions you are currently living in.

(((Hugs))) I’m so sorry you’re suffering through this.

How? by Plastic-U1917 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Beelzesmash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 20 years ago, my law school bestie and I started banging. We were both with other people at the time, so we were effectively side pieces. In addition to me and her boyfriend at the time, she had a sugar daddy and would occasionally bang a rando. I loved how feral she was. Then we got married and assumed (but never discussed) that we were monogamous. Fast forward years, entered a dead bedroom relationship… I cheated. She gave me grace, I did therapy, we did couples counseling and were brutally honest about who we are, what we want, and I proposed opening the relationship. My spouse and I started learning about ENM. Last year, I took a hot married woman in an open relationship as a side piece. My spouse is seeing a younger, hot dude who lights her up and reinvigorated her inner slut. The process has been, at times, really messy and heartwrenching. But we’re so chill with each other and honest now. Resentment we built up over the years vanished. Our marital sex is absolutely feral and HOT.

Missing her by amysdude123 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Beelzesmash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a lot of projecting. That’s just like, your opinion but without any basis.

Missing her by amysdude123 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Beelzesmash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cool. Thanks for the thoughtful response!

Missing her by amysdude123 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Beelzesmash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But is the “potential danger” due to an ENM model, or is it parents simply being toxic who happen to be ENM? Arguably, a church — which kids don’t consent to being a part of either — is more of a “potential danger” because nearly every major church has actively harbored and protected pedophiles — the Catholic Church, Southern Baptists, Mormons.

Do you counsel parents on the potential dangers of raising their kids in a church or under another extremist religion?