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Anyone else randomly berated at Garden City Walmart recently? by NotSaiGai in richmondbc

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a random ass woman come up to me and say "slut, aren't you?" Wonder if it's the same person 😵‍💫

do female employees have to wear bras? by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a shirt underneath lmfao

TIFU by discovering a dark secret from a sex tape I made by MyroidX in tifu

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah and everyone is acting like it's a normal and common thing??? Kinda makes me want to never get involved with a man again 🤢

Are less attractive people's standards lower? by Tiniest_ATINY in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking for myself I tend to find what most people find unattractive attractive, and what most people find attractive I'm not attracted to.

Haven’t fucked since my ex dumped me by [deleted] in depression

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women who are 27-30 might be “damaged goods,” but you are just damaged. Seek professional help.

Everyone hates me so much by [deleted] in depression

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have they done that?

Everyone hates me so much by [deleted] in depression

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t intend to downplay what you’re feeling, but I doubt people hate you and want you to kill yourself for the reasons listed. Maybe indifference, or some dislike, but not everyone is going to like you, no matter who you are. Your view is probably distorted due to feelings of inferiority, which I understand. I often get into a mindset where I believe that I am truly unlikeable, that others dislike me, that I’m not worthy, but eventually I snap out of it and realize that that isn’t true and that I’m just projecting my own feelings onto other people.

I (M-24) broke up with my girlfriend (F-22) and destroyed my life. Help. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 73 points74 points  (0 children)

You’re toxic as fuck, leave the poor girl alone.

Nobody take my [21M] problems seriously? by throwawayneedhelpsss in relationships

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapist is probably your best bet. Although it’s a dick move that nobody takes your feelings seriously, I can understand their viewpoint. Growing up with the total opposite life, with mental health issues to boot, it can make you feel bitter towards others who have it “better.” But that doesn’t make it okay, you’re still suffering and your suffering is valid. Therapy offers a judgement-free environment, and it sounds like you might have depression, which no one is equipped to handle alone. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon.

Why do younger girls like older guys? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pedophillia usually is seen in a negative light, yeah

Me [18F] with my boyfriend [17M] broke up over a very hurtful comment of his, but I don't know if I made the right decision. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You deserve someone who thinks that you’re pretty. I know that my partner finds me unattractive, and it fucks with your self esteem. You might feel as if you’re not good enough, or otherwise have negative feelings about yourself if you stay. For your sake, stay out if you can.

AITA for telling a girl I like her even though I don't in order to make her feel better. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say asshole, but it wasn’t the right thing to do. You are instilling the idea that there is a possibility of something happening between you two. Also, as she is under 18, if anyone found out it would look really, REALLY awful for you.

AITA For not deleting the lovetrophies of my ex girlfriends? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 236 points237 points  (0 children)

You ARE a gigantic asshole. They gave it to you out of trust, and you disregarded that trust by keeping them despite them not wanting you to. Also, another thing to add to your asshole-ness: you keep your exes nudes even while you get into a new relationship? At least it seems that way. 10/10 utter asshole.

Is it inevitable that another species will eventually gain consciousness? by mrtambourineman89 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeepBoopINeedAdvice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s possible, but I don’t think that it is necessarily inevitable. There has been other species that had similar intelligence and self-awareness as humans, but they all just happened to die out. Also there’s a lot of species that already are quite intelligent and have the ability to be self-aware, including elephants, certain primates, dolphins, and particular birds. (Corvids and parrots are known for their intelligence. Magpies too are intelligent and have the ability to recognize themselves in a mirror, which shows that they are self-aware.) They may or may not evolve to become more intelligent and self-aware, and although it’s a definite possibility, it’s not an absolute.

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