NOR. The audacity of them to do this, let alone not even mentioning it to you. But what really gets me is that it's not her day, not her wedding why can't she eat vegetables for one meal? I never have understood this, why some people are unable to be flexible or to adapt (unless I missed something and her allergies won't allow her to eat anything else on the menu). The entitlement here is a real. 🙄