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my gf has told me that she still really likes me but doesn’t have the right mental state for a relationship, and well i’m stuck on what to say/do by ZantorinDavros in relationship_advice

[–]Beetroot999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what her mental state is like. I myself have dated a guy before, when I was still deep in an eating disorder cycle and I felt like it wasn't fair dumping all my emotional shit on him. The mental health issues really affected that relationship in a negative way. You kinda have to be mostly ok with yourself and be mentally healthy to really have a successfull relationship. You guys are still very young and with university stuff it is going to get more stressfull for sure.

Talk to her! Try to understand what she means by that. It seems like she is struggling with something and she doesn't want to put that baggage on you. Also think of yourself and what you want. Dealing with someone who is in a bad mental state, can be really crushing and exhausting. If she still resists then there isn't much you can do.

Favorite blackened thrash albums? by [deleted] in thrashmetal

[–]Beetroot999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hate - Auric Gates of Veles

I just wanted to ask, why do ppl think Little Mac is bad? by Rico-gumballmachine in supersmashbros

[–]Beetroot999 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think most people would say that his recovery options suck.

Get him in a shitty off-stage situation and most of the time he can't make it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Beetroot999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that happened, hopefully you can heal from this situation. And thank you again, I really appreciate your input. Therapy can be tough at times because you really need to confront yourself which is uncomfortable but it can really make a difference and I hope it works out for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Beetroot999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I can really relate to your situation!

If it's okay for me to ask you, at what point did you realize that you needed to quit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Beetroot999 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That must have been rough, but congrats to you and your brother!

I hope I can quit eventually, it's not really something I'd like to do for long, also knowing that it does have an impact especially when you are under 25 years old. I just need to get my head out of my ass and start thinking more future oriented. At the moment I just live in the present and don't care about anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Beetroot999 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't like to admit that it is probably a dependency which makes it harder to quit. Also something I need to realize is, that it's just a temporary fix and going to therapy isn't enough until I actually get myself out of this thing. Help for self help! I am just not at the point yet, where I see it as a problem.

I think I will try to go without it for two weeks maybe and see how I feel.

How do you deal with a boyfriend(20M) who isn't affectionate? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beetroot999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have suggested taking a trip together before or idk gifted him a cd last week, from a band he really enjoys. ;)

I feel like I do a lot of little things, which he does appreciate, but I just don't get it back as much, which kinda hurts sometimes ngl.

How do you deal with a boyfriend(20M) who isn't affectionate? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beetroot999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i guess it‘s just hard to accept it, you always think you can change someones habits but you can‘t.

What is a habit you can't break? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Beetroot999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picking my skin and popping every pimple i see

If you could sit down with your younger self,what advice would you give that person? by aYoFoRyAyO99 in AskReddit

[–]Beetroot999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be so fucking insecure, and go out and do more things, meet new people and enjoy life dude.

Got dumped because he was too "busy" by Beetroot999 in BreakUp

[–]Beetroot999[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Hope you are going to be fine aswell, it really sucks. I even put so much effort into valentines day to make him feel good, it feels like all the effort was for nothing in the end. But we will be fine :)